@Arvia I agree totally. I lost my husband at the beginning of January this year. He made me promise that I would go on and build myself a life without him. I feel desperately sorry for those who feel that they dont want to carry on. I do!!!
I know its not going to be easy, because Jim was always my support. He was able to mix with people and I was the shy one in his shadow. Im not going to curl in the corner, and fully intend to live a full life. I am actually going to book myself on a painting holiday at the end of the year. My husband would have hated it, so we wouldnt have gone. Im doing it fir me.