Finding nights and weekends so lonely without my mum who I lived with life doesn’t and won’t ever feel the the same will it
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Hello @Jonathonr25 ,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents and how difficult the nights and weekends are for you. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Alex
Jonathon, I am so sorry that your mom died. It is an Earth shattering life event, a most profound loss. The empty space is horrifying.
I am also sorry to tell you that life will never feel the same. It is not the same.
But, it is still good, even great. In 18 months you will be in a different place mentally and will have adapted to the changes in your life. The heaviness of the loss will get lighter, laughter and joy will return. You will miss your mom until the day you leave Earth, but it won’t hurt as much as it does now.
Promise.
Much love.
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Another day I struggle thru
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The main thing is that you are getting through it. That in itself is an achievement.
I lost my mum in late July & it’s so so hard. I cannot see any beauty in the world anymore. I’m just existing.
Hi that’s exactly how I feel. I lost my dad suddenly and unexpectedly a few weeks ago and feel like life is no fun anymore just trying to get through every day but am just broken as a person. I can’t imagine feeling joy and content in life without him xx
You’re still in shock @Amanda80. Don’t put pressure on yourself. Getting through the days is an achievement.
Thank you Anna. It just hurts so much and hard to get your head around that you will not see them again.
I’m sorry for your loss and hope you are ok.
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I’m 5 months on from my mum passing & I’m still not able to cope with knowing I won’t see her again Amanda. The thought of that
is so horrific that I can’t process it.
Do you have people around you to support you?
Hi Anna I know that feeling is unbearable. I do have support which I don’t know what I’d do without it. Do you have support? I just hope it gets easier to deal with.
I do have support but all I really want is my mum. 
This site is really helpful too. The people on here completely understand what you’re going through.
Same id do anything to have him back again. I look at his photos everyday wishing I could see him.
I find mornings so hard when you wake and the realisation hits again.
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Yes it’s comfort to know you are not alone and can talk to one another here.
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