Weekend and nights

Finding nights and weekends so lonely without my mum who I lived with life doesn’t and won’t ever feel the the same will it

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Hello @Jonathonr25 ,

I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents and how difficult the nights and weekends are for you. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.

Take good care,
Alex

Jonathon, I am so sorry that your mom died. It is an Earth shattering life event, a most profound loss. The empty space is horrifying.

I am also sorry to tell you that life will never feel the same. It is not the same.

But, it is still good, even great. In 18 months you will be in a different place mentally and will have adapted to the changes in your life. The heaviness of the loss will get lighter, laughter and joy will return. You will miss your mom until the day you leave Earth, but it won’t hurt as much as it does now.

Promise.

Much love.

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Another day I struggle thru

The main thing is that you are getting through it. That in itself is an achievement.
I lost my mum in late July & it’s so so hard. I cannot see any beauty in the world anymore. I’m just existing.