What now?

It is now 8 months since my husband died. Still feel upset every day but I am trying stand alone more. The flowers Re growing a d I am getting used to doing the shopping and things he did. But it still feels an enormous adjustment


Dear Enorac, I am so sorry for your loss. In two days it will be five months since I lost suddenly and unexpectedly my beloved husband due to undiagnosed advanced kidney cancer. I am still traumatised and although a kind of acceptance kicked in I am mostly bewildered about what actually happened to both of us. It is such horrible existence but we are not alone because all in this forum go to similar situations. Some have loving support (the lucky ones although it will never replace our loss), and some have no support at all (I am also on my own). It does help to post, get advice and chat in this forum. Take car for now. Sending lots of love and hugs.