When will it stop

It’s been 9 months since my Dad died suddenly in January.
I seemed to be dealing with it all OK at first.
I sorted the funeral took care of all the affairs money his home etc.
Then my daughter took seriously ill in May and was in hospital for 4 months.
It seems now it as just hit me.
I am hopeless , can’t think straight , don’t want to go anywhere ,be with anyone and can’t be bothered to do the easiest task.
I just sit all day being miserable.
I no this is wrong and I should get out and carry on.
But I can’t.
I have no interest anymore.
Although I have family I feel on my own without a purpose.

Hello Lynac123xxx,

I’m sorry to hear that you’re dad died suddenly in January and that you’ve been through so much with your daughter since then. It’s not surprising that your grief has just hit you now after all that’s happened. There is no right or wrong way to grieve so don’t feel that you should be doing anything. Grief is very individual so it’s important to do what feel right for you, and when.

I hope you’re feeling supported at the moment, but if not this community is here for you. If you could do with extra support you would be welcome to register for our online counselling service and speak to one of our qualified counsellors.

Let me know if there’s anything I can do for you.

Take care,

Thank you for your reply.
I did feel very alone even though I have family .
This site as been my life line and I thank you for that I really do.
I can’t talk to anyone about my Dad as I break down sobbing.
So being able to write on here is perfect for me.
Strangely I feel good today .
Been gardening in the sunshine .
I have good and bad days .
It just seems never ending.
Thank you