I lost my Mum allmost 4 weeks ago. She is in Germany and I came from UK to look after her in May. I have to go back end of Nov so my Dad told me to start putting her cloths in bags to give to Red Cross. Just spent an afternoon doing the bedroom, 7 bags, I was sad but didnt cry. I am at a loss as to why, doesnt seem normal. I know she had to go and I have shed many tears but just seems odd that it was just sadness
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Hello @Jaccanja,
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your mum that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
It is because you are still in a state of shock. The tears will come when you least expect it . It may be looking at an old photo , you may see someone that looks like her,but it will come. You take care of yourself and your father:heart:
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