widowed once, now partner close to death

I lost my husband to cancer 15 years ago. 18 months after I met a lovely man and we have been together since. He is now dying of cancer. Has anyone else out there had this happen to them twice? I think the gods must hate me. Totally devastated.

Hello, calsedge,
I am so sorry that you have been through this ordeal twice. I hope you gain comfort from this community. I have heard of this happening, my friend’s mother lost both her husbands to suicide.

I am so sorry to read your sad news…i hope you can get some comfort from caring & sincere thoughts sent :rose: