It would have been my wife’s birthday tomorrow, lost her a couple of years ago with anorexia. Sitting here in tears wishing she was here to celebrate her birthday. It gets no easier.
Im so sorry you have to feel this, birthdays and anniversaries are the worst. i wish i could help but all i can do is send a virtual hug.
Oh @Gazza11 tomorrow will be a hard day for you I am sure.
I would think time doesn’t make much difference on birthdays - I’ve only had 1 of my husbands which was better than I thought it would be, but my birthday is at the end of the month and I’m dreading that.
Just do whatever you feel you want to, to remember your love together.
I truly hope you find some peace tomorrow
Sending lots of strength your way xx
Thank you for your kind words
That is so kind of you to reply thank you