I found out 2 Days ago that my partner’s crimashon is on 28th January at 7am I am not looking forward to that day I am worried that I am going to just crumble . I have my daughter coming tomorrow to stay the night . And register office to register jays death on 23rd getting the bus for that lots to do but not enough for me trying to keep busy x would help if I had friends close x
I’m so sorry about your partner, @Mandyoz. Can I just check if you meant to send this as a private message to me or someone else? If not, just let me know and I make it a public topic so you can get support from other members.
Take care,
Seaneen
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It was meant for the other people to see and you I don’t mind just feeling alone at moment thank you x
I’ve made this a public topic now, @Mandyoz, so you can get the support you need.
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It’s good you’ve got daughter coming to stay to give you some surport. You will be busy in the run up to the funeral. So many decisions to be made when your head isn’t always in the right place. It’s good you’ve got friends shame they don’t live nearer. They can always ring them , it’s at times like these when you need your friends
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Yes it is good to have friends but I think I my be annoying them . With my crying . Yes looking forward to my daughter coming she is only coming for the night she has a life of her own and works. But one night is better than none x
Thank you very much x
I am sure you’re not annoying your friends with crying , you need to let it out . As much as our family are there to support us , as you say they have their own lives . It’s hard to adjust to being on your own after being a couple for so long . Nobody can truly understand unless they are going through it or have been through it
Take care
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Thank you so much.I do feel like I am on own we were together for 20 years and 6 of them were just me and Jay . So yes I have been to the church where I live and been to the egg farm up the road today . Anyway I am sure you are in pain too . X
Glad you’re been to church I am sure it helped, and you’ve been out . My husband had been married for 36 years . 26 years on our own as the grown up children flew the nest . So it’s a hard journey we are on
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O yes it definitely is x