Ali29 you have a great attitude, there is hope for us all to get on with life although at the moment it seems impossible, thank you keep smiling x
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@Ali29 reading that does give me some hope that maybe gentler days are ahead?? right now i just can’t see it…
this morning i didn’t think i could face getting up but faith has swimming lessons at 9:30 so we’re up and ready to go, how i don’t know but we are, so maybe that’s my little win of today??
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And that’s just it, we don’t have a choice, life goes on regardless x
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Scarl34. Well done today, you are doing really well, thinking of you especially today. Sending lots of love x
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Keep going and take your little wins, well done on keep moving one foot in front of the other.
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thank you @Kathy6 i suppose it’s an improvement to yesterday as i was still led in bed torturing myself about the day ahead. sending you all my love too xx
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Well done x
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Its like that @Nori many ups and downs - one minute your ok the next youre a wreck … those memories and sadness so hard some days … take care - at least you have your boys with you ! Mine are grown up with partners of their own and i can tell you they don’t get easier with age - so enjoy it while you can even though its a sad time for you xxx
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I really can and do feel with you all, can relate and understand. Still, most of you are so lucky to have children, family and friends to help you carry on through this hell. If it weren’t for our cats that need me l think l would end this misery called life, the loneliness, the silent weekends, can’t share with mostly strangers what l’m going through.
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Matisse, you can share with us on this site, we might be strangers but we all share the same overwhelming grief of loosing our loved ones. There is always someone giving their story and showing how they are coping and moving forward(even just making baby steps).
Sending lots of love x
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Just as @Kathy6 has said, you can absolutely share whatever you’re feeling on this forum,it’s why we’re all here. You will find non judgmental, warm, lovely people on here.
You’re not alone in this awful journey x
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Everyone on here is in the same situation, I lost my fiancée in October after she had the all clear in May from Cancer. It was such a shock to here it had gone to ger brain. I spent 24/7 at her bedside for a week. It was horrific to watch my soulmate die in such away. I sometimes wonder why im still here, but have no choice but to carry her memory forwards if i can. Love to all on here xx
I think the first Christmas without our soulmate will be tough for us all.
I’ve made a bold move & I’m going to Vegas on my own. We used to go regularly at Christmas.
I’m actually quite excited about it albeit tinged with sadness obviously.
But I know he would be so proud of me for going so I’m absolutely going to smash it & enjoy every moment.
I hope you all get thru Christmas in whatever way feels right for you.
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I was thinking about going away, we used to go abroad for new year. But i chickened out going alone didn’t sit well.
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We’re all different😊
I needed to get away & Vegas is full of singles anyway. I’ll chat to anyone tbh & have booked some shows too.
He’d be so proud of me.
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I don’t know you and im proud of you. Your doing what is right for you. Thats all any of us can do. Stay safe
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That’s a lovely thing to say
Thank you x
Youre so brave ! I couldnt do it myself ! Only just managing to go away with daughter and granddaughter ! At times its been hard tbh - but i wish you well and if you can do it - good on you 
xxx
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Thank you
I’m actually really looking forward to it😊
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