Ive been on a journey since losing my mum 3 years ago.You wonder when grief will end but there is no end because your loved one is always going to be gone.Compared to what it felt like at the beginning it does get easier but for me i wake up everyday and hope this nightmare will be over.When i visit my mums house i just want her to be there, even though i know that’s not possible i still have that thought.Life is really hard when you dont have your mum to turn to.
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Hi. It’s only just over 8 weeks for me losing my mum suddenly to a stroke. She was only 67. It is like a nightmare that I can’t wake up from so I know what you mean. Not much else to say, except I understand x
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Hi Lindz thank you.Im so sorry for your loss.I lost my mum after she had a stroke.I cant say time heals but it does help.In some ways the pain does become less as time goes by.It always feels unfair and cruel and like a nightmare for me anyways.When there are bad days they can be really bad.There also are happy days and happy times.I also feel like its always the good people we lose.Bad things always seem to happen to good people.Its just all really unfair x
Hi,
It does seem that way. My mum was always trying to help people. She was so thoughtful, and there for everyone if she could be.
I miss sending her messages all the time and seeing her nearly every day, we weren’t a hugging type of family, but I’d do anything to be able to give her a big hug now…
Take care and hopefully time will continue to help us both
Love Lindz xx