My weekends are usually sorted.
On Saturdays I go to my friends for lunch and a chat. I’ve been doing it for the best part of 40 years.
And on Sunday morning I go to Church, which I have started doing since I lost Roger. I’m not super religious but I do get some comfort from it.
Sunday afternoons can be tough but I’m learning to cope
Big hugs x
I used to be a Roman Catholic. I got cross with God when my first husband died. I never went back to the church for a number of reasons. But I have always been a Christian. My second husband was a non-believer but I still asked the hospital chaplains ( C of E and Catholic) to bless and anoint him when he was in a coma. Anything that gives comfort is a good thing. A forward-thinking young priest once said that even if religion is wishful thinking it will never do any harm.
I spoke to a Medium after my first husband and she gave me hope. My first husband thought such things were anti- Christian. My second husband thought it was nonsense.
I prefer to believe we will all be together again in heaven. I just don’t know how that will work for me. I loved both.
If something brings you peace and comfort I think you should grab it with both hands. Xx
I agree with you @Willow112
Not sure how it’ll work for me either.
My husbands first wife died so she’ll already be there. Does he have to choose.
Silly question but something that goes through my head x x
Me too! What are we like?
Oh @jevncute
She is absolutely gorgeous.
You have taken such a big step by going to you sisters and taking on a new puppy.
I’m sure it will be right for you.
She’ll certainly keep you busy 
You will still have a lot of tears, like you I wonder where they all come from, but they keep coming.
It’s still very early days for you but you are
Taking small steps, and that is good.
Enjoy Millee and know we are all behind you
Love and hugs
Liz x
Ty Liz i know its going to be hard going. I just felt i needed something like i said i dont know if it was the right decision. But i am so lost and lonely i needed something that moves around. Ty for the support x
Youll be fine. Just keep taking those baby steps and remember we’re all here for you.
You are not alone x x
How long is it since you lost your husband? Are you alone? X
Its 18 weeks. Still seems like yesterday.
But I am starting to cope.
I still have bad days and I still cry a lot. But I am learning to cope.
Yes I’m alone, but I do have family and friends
X x
Bkess you its so hard isnt it. I hate been alone never have been before. Xxd
Me neither but honestly gradually you get used to it, without even noticing.
I still don’t like it but I can cope with it now
X x
Good morning @jevncute
She’s so cute! Shell bring you so much love and comfort, don’t doubt your decision!
Well done for going to your daughter’s, it’ll have done you the world of good! How was the chicken dinner?
Yesterday was a write of for me I was so tired and lacked motivation. I seem to get these waves of tiredness, I’m sure it’s part of the grieving. Any way I’ve had a rocket up my bum this morning… cleaned bathroom amd kitchen. Changed bedding,.polished through, hoovered and mopped. Just going for a shower now. Then usual scrolling before my friend and sister come round ( I’d rather they didn’t but I know I always feel better afterwards,.it’s like I what to be a recluse but I never used to be)
Xx
Good morning katyn
Yes shes very cute but doesn’t like it if i am not in few. Today is another bad day i cried while getting a shower. I never thought i could ever feelbso lonely.
I wish i had a friend who would call. I find the nights the worst. Hope you enjoy your vistors. Xxx
@jevncuts
She doesn’t like what?
Maybe give a friend a call?
Yes the loneliness is horrible isn’t it. Xx
Sorry if i am notbin veiw . X
It sure is i really hate it xx
Aww bless her she’ll hey used to it. It’ll all be new to her xx
