I lost my firstborn a daughter 42 yrs ago never a day goes by I dont think of her x
Oh my goodness. That is awful. I too have lost 2 family members. My son and my grandson. Ellis, my grandson passed on 9th May and my son on 14th July 2025. Ellis had neurofibromotosis and we knew that he would probably pass away in his teens. He was 17. My son, Daniel had cerebral palsy and his death came as a complete shock, 3 days after his birthday. He was 38. I just found him unresponsive in bed. He had epilepsy but it was very much under control. He died from SUDEP which is sudden death in epilepsy. I keep questioing myself as to whether I had remembered to give him his epilim. I have memory problems and I don’t remember giving it to him that night.
Ang I lost my daughter age 34 on Oct 17, 2023 I fully understand your loss most days I’m not sure how I made it to the following day .my daughter had a car pull out in front she pulled her wheel too hard and flipped. Our truck smashing into a tree .the person that caused the accident stopped long enough to see my daughters trailblazer trk become part of the tree she was crushed as the front end came in pinning her inside .her legs and chest .we’re pinned from the engen , dash board and steering wheel
I was called to the scene since it was only 3 miles from our home as I stood les then 25 ft from her they wouldn’t let me near the truck . When they stopped trying to get her out I knew she was gone 3 hours it took took to get her out the covered her with a shee that became blood soaked soon after covering her .she was my miracle child I was told I would never have. Im Blessed with a son 2 yrs younger than her . Day to day I dont know what to do she left behind 3 children 2 girls and a boy my daughter was divorced from the kids dad . The first year he allowed me to see them any time I wanted . The. Second year he decided they didn’t need me in thier life as much . It’s been a year and I have only seen the 4xs . Do you have any grandchildren from your son ? I cry still every day usually in the shower so I’m not herd. My son told me all thier life i told them to get along be there for each other for each other is all you will have . My son asked who ishe going to have now .You see my husband thier father was killed on the same road as my daught 2 years prior He and I lost my husband of 34yrs life is so hard to live now. I can’t go any place without having a panic attack . I no longer can be around alot of people I cant sleep more than 2-3 hours so many people think we should be over this move on with our life not realizing we just do not know how to anymore your not alone truly your not
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