My husband was vaccinated but his last one was in july 22 so not relevant or cause to many blaming the vaccine
Hi, that’s not strictly true. The effects of the covid vaccination don’t show up straight away. What is known now is that the vaccination does have an adverse effect on the heart of some people. We have a real excess of deaths in the U.K. as around the rest of the world. I’ve had the vaccination but not too bothered if it affects me to be honest. Friday’s always seem a bad day for me.
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The weekend is just around the corner.
There is a thread on this forum regarding the COVID vaccine and younger healthy people dying. It was some time ago. You might come across it. X
Sonya, there are no easy answers and I am not going to insult you by pretending that there are, I lost my mother on the 5th of january to dementia as she passed away in my arms heavily sedated but gasping for breath and found my self under a mental health nurse more used to dealing with battle field trauma( any extreme stress can cause it and your mother dying in your arms after a 4 year battle is proberby 11 on the scale 1-10) if you are still no better after 6 months then you may have an underlying problem like clinical depression and should seek medical help, only you know how you feel, but do not knock your own bails of the rickets just yet, do you have any family members left or are you alone?.(my sister in law is know my next of kin with the death of my twin brother in september 2001) shortly after my mother died I went to see Quinn in Southport(a world leading clairvoyant) to my astonishment the name coming through in the reading was frank, the name of my father who died in 2008, Quinn assured me the other members of my family are together and getting on fine, I think you should give it a go as it will help give you closure, we all have to reinvent our selves and we all have dark days but there may be a deeper underlying problem in your case, did you have a long struggle with him as a carer before he passed?, was it a difficult death like my mothers?, if so it may have effected you, clearly you have loved and been loved and one day you may love again and the sun will shine upon you, try to cultivate convenial company when you are ready for it, hold on to your courage and faith and give thanks for what you have had, better to have had and to have lost then not to have had at all, I cannot offer you a panacea but I can suggest a book that might help ‘you are not alone’ by cariad lloyd, I found it helpful, incidentally there is no such thing as a correct way to grieve so don’t let anyone tell you there is,we never get over a life changing bereavement, we just get used to it, consider taking up new hobbies, power lifting or para gliding if you fancy it, a new interest would be good for you, be brave, hang in there and don’t give in,you can honour your loved one by making a success of your life and by reaching out and helping others, my mother was the war time generation and fought like Ukraine until hell froze over when she passed, may God give you strength and guide you in the coming days
Tim
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I feel your pain. My husband passed 5 weeks tomorrow. I’ve got to pick up my husbands ashes this week and can’t believe he’s gone forever and will never be able to tell him i love you and how he made me smile when i felt sad. It is surreal. 
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