Hi, I just wanted to know if anyone else has experienced as such…? Six months after I found my love of my life… I had a dream/not a nice one … but nothing to do with us… I woke up with my hand being held… and when I turned… I saw a siloette of his face and we both spoke -but no words just lip reading…I have no guess about it? What happened? Only it’s a comfort
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Hi @Jewell_12
I’m glad you were comforted by the experience, it sounds amazing.
I have had experiences too, the first year my boyfriend & I spent Christmas together, we went to the cinema, & as the film was starting, I felt someone sat behind us, but when I looked round there was no-one there, I decided not to say anything to my boyfriend because I didn’t want to spook him, but then afterwards, when we were walking home, he said, “I could feel your mom was sat behind us,” 
I was very taken back when he said that, he sensed her too.
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Hi yes we all have great loss, my wife passed suddenly.
My mum and dad passed all in the past year.
I go too sleepy thinking of my wife and yes she will drop in to say hello, however it’s not good as she blames me for going so Yong and I will wake up and can’t sleep.
There is good and bad in a meeting in your dreams.
Lots of love hopefully you have more good experiences with the ones that have passed away.
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Hi
When i first lost my husband 3 and a half years ago ,it became time i had to go back to work even though i didnt want to i knew i had to try . On the morning i was going my husband came to me at the side of the bed and said its 6 o clock luv ,time to get up and i knew he had come to help me . God bless us all here who are grieving.
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I’ve had a lot of things like this happen in the early days of losing my Mum.
Been to mediums where they told me things they shouldn’t have known. Was told to give symbols for yes and no and ask my mum questions.
First time I gave a white butterfly for yes and a peacock butterfly for no, asked if she was still with me. Along comes a white butterfly.
Changed my symbols to a robin for yes and a sparrow for no, asked the same question as before, along comes a robin.
Thought to myself it was just a coincidence and these things exist, I laughed once and said if I ever so a stag (don’t usually see them in my area as I’m in a town) I really will believe she is still around. Kid you not I walked another way home for reasons unknown and guess what comes shooting past me! Only a freaking stag, I almost passed out from shock!
Found lots of white feathers, was collecting them but doubting they were ‘signs’ said to her “if you put one in a less obvious place, I may start believing”. One day I was drinking a can of pop and I had been drinking it a while and I picked it up for another sip and there on my coaster was a bloody white feather my partner witness that and even he was amazed. May I just add that is just my mums sense of humour and something she would have done!
I’ve had lots of experiences and could write a book and I’ve actually been wondering if it was all real lately because things seem to have stopped happening as much but I realise my Mum probably took a step back to allow me to get on with things now.
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Yes there is no bad in thinking there is still a connection with the people we have lost.
I think we all wish we could just have one more chat, one more conversation one more time with them.
I miss my childrens mum so mutch it’s so hard doing this my self, I am a dad, a mum all in one.
I didn’t ever think I would be a single dad.
Lots of love keep strong.
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A few weeks after husband passed, I woke up in night and felt a hand on my stomach! Turned round and husband standing there - he said “get up” and he was “real” enough for me to say “is that you Tony?” I am sure I wasnt dreaming because I spoke to him! All happened very quickly and nothing since! still not sure what he meant!!!
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That’s fantastic to know your making a connection, it’s very hard to know what they’re saying but at least they are dropping in.
Hopefully this will continue and it gives you some happiness.
Lots of love
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I lost my husband 4yrs ago after 60yrs of a very happy marriage. I had a similar experience to you when I woke one morning and he was stood at the side of the bed smiling down at me, as I tried to focus on him he disappeared. I now more than ever believe in the ‘after life’ and that he is still there watching over me and I talked to him all the time. I asked his guidance every time I have to make a decision on anything. I still & always will grieve for him but knowing his spirt is still with me it helps me carry on and try to enjoy my life until we are together again.
I hope this helps all of you who are grieving.
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Hi,
It is weirdly reassuring to think we will be reunited with our loved ones again some day, in this way, I have nothing to fear from death.
Sending hugs of support to everyone.
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Your words are very comforting , thank you and God bless you .
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Thanks for your help and support. Definitely dealing with loss is difficult but thinking a reunion will happen in paradise.
Lots of love 
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I had a couple of weird things happen to me when I was a child but no signs from my husband who passed away early last year suddenly and unexpectedly. The only thing I can say is when I wrote him a letter to put into his coffin I found a tear drop on the J of his name which I had left on the kitchen table so could of been from anywhere.
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I have a few white feathers after my aunt had passed - usually a dry night - and feathers bone dry - with nothing in my house filled with feathers 
I’ve had no experiences since that night- it comforts me especially coming up to two years next weekend… how are you doing? X
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He mouthed I love you … and I said wait for me and then he smiled
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Hi everyone,
I had an interesting experience last week, I had gone to bed, but it was a sad day, I was upset, I could feel mom’s hand on mine, she was wearing her rings, it felt comforting 
, I think it’s mom that keeps sending me hearts 
, I find them everywhere.
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I have had nothing once that experience 
I don’t believe in any gods or religion and my dad didn’t either. He died at the end of August 2024 and I was with him. He’ d been batlling a terminal illness for over a year. I mostly have struggled because he said he didnt know where he was going ( after death) he was frightened and all I could do was be there with him and hold his hand and comfort him. The week after he died I noticed seeing a white butterfly almost everywhere I went . I was looking after his dog in the first weeks as my mum was struggling and I found one right in front of me on the floor. I checked to see if it was ok and it flew away. I thought it strange and probably just common this time of year then it stopped. A week later I was out with my mum and sister and we were having a difficult and emotional day. We sat down in the sun and sure enough a white butterfly flew right up to us and then away. We all laughed that dad had come back as a cabbage white. I know he loved nature and life and his family and that little white butterfly gave us all comfort in that moment.
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Everyone who feels they haven’t had a sign from their loved ones, you could be too stuck in grief or just life in general to notice them at first. Meditation can help, also try and sit quietly close your eyes, take note of how you’re feeling and ask your loved one to step forward, talk to them like they are with you, if your feelings change it could mean they are there with you. When I do this I sometimes feel energy go through me, almost like shivers but it’s a lot stronger.
Although I have had these experiences I do sometimes have my doubts and sceptism but I’ve done a lot of thinking lately and it makes more sense that we will be reunited with them again one day. Otherwise what is the actual point in us being here, I refuse to believe we came here by accident!
I did used to go to a development circle but I have a lot going on in my life at the moment and feel a little disconnected and questioning it so sorry if I seem like I don’t know what I’m going on about!
I do have something to add to my list of experiences though. The other night I fell into a sleep paralysis attack and I’ve been leaving my body searching for my mum when I have them but have never been able to find her before but this time when I left my body I found my Mum at the end of my bed, she looked younger and radiant, we hugged each other, wow she felt super solid! And then I must have gone back to my body cause I woke up but I could still feel her presence and I could feel all the love. Whether it was in my head or not, I definitely needed that!
Sorry if I sound like in contradicting myself, I’m just confused about the whole thing, I wish I could believe 100% there is something after this life!
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