i would love to see it. i was worried to tell people about having a tattoo with chips ashes in case they thought i was strange or something but i honestly dont care now i need chip with me x
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How would I get the pic on here I’ll gladly show it off when I first told ppl what I was doing they were like wow that’s different you just to take a good pic of your darling in with you as that’s what they copy detail for details I was really proud of myself I only had one lil break haaaaa the ratio didn’t hurt it as the writing underneath the face haaa xx
Tatoo don’t know why it came out like that again
Your so brave doing that, it must have been hard sitting in that coffee shop. You’re right, we would have to walk round with our eyes closed 
that made me laugh, it is silly because everywhere is Tim, so I wouldn’t go anywhere. Thank you, my heart melted when you said he will be right with me. It is so sad .
I’ll have to have a look into the rings, that seems a lovely idea x
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i wanted to put a picture on of my chip so you could put a face to the name but i couldnt figure out how x
hi karie
sadly unlike you I had no say in Jaynes funeral or were the ashes went which as screwed me up.ive never wanted a tattoo in my life,i nearly had one when I lost my sister Samantha in 1986 when she was 9 and I was 21 but decided against it,but with all the shyte I had deal with regarding Jaynes family and wanting keep Jayne close I had a portrait done then one with 2 roses ontop of each other Jaynes name my name and soulmates inbetween,then on 20th jan I had another portrait from Jaynes 1994 passport photo.showing my love for Jayne and keeping her very close to me.hope when you get the tattoo done enjoy your tattoo and it keeps chip close to you .
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it was hard but i did it yes i felt sad but i want to relive the memories not hide from them, i dont want the fear to hold me back. when chip was in hospital they had his back to the window all he could see was the door. i told them i wanted his bed turned to see out the window. as soon as he opened his eyes they were a beautiful crystal blue i had never seen them so bright. when i was looking at these rings i saw one that was the colour of his eyes. they have some beautiful ones. We also had chips finger prints done and his hand print. i am thinking of having a key chain with a finger print on aswell for when im driving around. Steph we cant hide and stop living because we are scared of the pain. chips Favorited song at karaoke was travelling light so i had it played at his farewell. i thought i could never listen to it again. when my daughter took me to collect his flowers from the crematorium i asked her to play it as i was leaving. I sang it balling my eyes out but i knew i would have to get used to hearing it because i remember chip singing it at karaoke. Be brave
Jianye. i am so sorry you had no say in Jaynes funeral thats so cruel. also losing your sister at such a young age i feel for you, again i would to see the portraits it would be nice to share pictures of thing we take comfort in xx
hi karie thank you.ive done topics with the tattoos on,they are on my profile.think a few others had posted their tattoos as well.
I dont normally participate in threads like this were several are posting,as the conversations change and it was only because I read your post I wanted to comment.
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can you put pictures on here ?
Karie, you are so strong, I do admire you for it and I will try for Tim, I am scared of the pain and do tend to think I’m never doing that or never going there.
I will try . That’s so lovely, the ring the colour of his eyes, I will look into that.
I also have his handprint, I feel I can’t even look at that, but I’ve got to face it sometime.
Thanks Karie, for your words, you’ve made me feel I can be a bit stronger. I wish we all wasn’t going through all of this x
ive posted on my own thread.i tend look all over the place and try if no one as responded to a newbie other than that im not for these threads with loads of topic switching back and forth will leave that to those that like doing it,take care
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Sorry to butt in girls but I got this made with Colin’s ashes. If you Google Chris Parry jewellery you will see what he can do. It was another forum member told me about him
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That’s so beautiful V,
Thanks for that , I will look into it x
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look at it Steph please it may hurt but to be honest we had a giggle at chips prints he was a little bit of a rogue in his younger days and we commented that he should be used to having his prints taken. Try and find the best in things. When chip passed my mom told me to remove his ring in case it went astray. I was crying my eyes out taking it off i wore it for a week. then the funeral home said he can ware it and take it with him. on his hand print i can see the gap in the ink where his ring was. i take comfort in that. x
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i love that mrs colt thank you for sharing x also could you tell me how to post pictures please
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When you reply down on the bottom right there are two wee pink boxes press the one on the left and it will let you upload photos
How beautiful it’s gorgeous 
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Thanks Alex, he makes loads of different ones but I like that this one is understated for wearing every day x