Can't deal with it

Oh Karie he’s beautiful love dogs there very theriputal give you a reason to get up in the morning xx

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he is a very good dog he no problem at all and loving we touched lucky with him x

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Very loyal arnt they and they pick up on our sadness n just give you so much love in return xx

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im sure Miguel did when i fetched him he hugged me x

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Because he knew you needs a big hug off him and he’s saying thank you for giving him such a loving safe home and he’s right by your side. Would love another dog but would I be getting it because I really wanted it or just getting it because i just need it for company maybe when my heads thinking a bit more straight I’ll know then. When you’ve got a million zillion things running through your head you can’t think straight n just do things without thinking first xx

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i honestly got Miguel for someone to love and to love me now i love him to bits. x

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He’s a little angel he was sent for you to love n protect you you were meant to have him xx

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i honestly believe that Alex x

I do Karie most definitely xx

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Hi Karie, bit late maybe for you, I have had a reasonable day, but I have had a evening from hell, and I don’t know why, why am I in pieces again just can’t carry on like this, why does this keep happening, missed you today, you always seem to make sense of how I am feeling.
Richard xx

do you think its because its coming to bed time and thats when you miss Jean the most xx

I expect it is for most people evenings are for settling in together watching your favourite soaps/programmes couple time. Then you would probably have a routine before bed time. Then settle in for the night. You choose Jean’s dressing gown to sleep with. So nights are the most difficult for you. What I suggest is carry on as if Jean was right there with you keep the routine. It’s the change in our lifes we find hard going from being 2 people to 1. There fore stick to what you know xx

Have not been to any 80’s revivals as yet. Theatres and clubs must be losing a fortune just now Richard and from what I have seen on the news this morning lockdown is set to continue until at least the end of May. Since our office closed for the lockdown I spend a large part of my morning checking in on staff online to make sure they are coping… We are all thankful we have jobs. Maybe we can all get back to normal soon. Stay safe and take care

Hi Everyone I am glad I am not the only one who is getting confused over what day it is. As long as the government does not stop us going out for exercise due to a few idiots if we all pull together I am sure we will see the light at the end of the tunnel hopefully soon. Off to check in with some staff to make sure they are ok. Take care

He is so gorgeous Karie. Animals are often much better than humans they do not care what you look like and always know when you are feeling sad and upset. I would be lost without our cats. They have seen me through many a dark day when I was caring for my Mom. You are so right Alex they give you a reason to get up each day. Sending you all love and hugs and hope you all have a good day xx

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the smallest things hit you the most. had to go out for some bits today i was fine just pulled into home bargains and see a elderly gentleman driving a day van something chip wanted or a camper it triggered something in me my heart just sank then i remembered it was only 2 months ago i was shopping with chip in home bargains then i just thought he has really gone ill never shop with him again now i feel like a bag of crap and miss him

Hi Karie, sending a hug, it seems you’ve been having a few bad days. I know what you mean about the little things, everything is a reminder.
Glad you had a good chat with your daughter in law, it’s so good to just talk and talk and get everything out. You made me smile when you said you feel like a bag of crap, I feel like a sack of shit today aswell, from the minute I woke up I’ve just been crying all day, just took my daughter to work and cried all the way back. I m feeling so sad for Tim, he’s just gone😭
I think it just hits sometimes when you least expect. I was ok yesterday :roll_eyes:
I love your dog, i had two dogs , but lost them over the past two years, they bring a lot of love, bless them. X

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there is no other way of explaining it is there. i do feel like a bag of crap i cant believe how it just hit me so hard. one minute i was ok the next i couldn’t feel any worse. I really dont want to do stuff with out chip it isnt fair i feel like he is missing out. it weird when you just say to yourself he really has gone and the feelings you get they just cant be explained. we have 3 dogs molly a Shih Tzu she a old girl now chip loved her so much and my daughters have a cross jack Russel Chihuahua which i renamed rat burger today she never stops barking she thinks she hard keeps trying to take on the neighbours rottweilers. she never right Miguel is my gentle giant he only 5 months but he is so layed back and calm he gonna be my protector and my buddy. He is honestly a comfort to me and i have told chip not to worry about me Miguel will protect me. Im sorry to hear you had a few tears today i have had a few myself one of those days today. Sometimes its so hard when i actual think he gone im never going to see him again. I look at chips pictures and i crave for a hug

Yes the feelings are just torture, I don’t think we could feel any worse. What type of dog is Miguel? Looks like he’s going to be big . I had a cocker spaniel and a golden retriever I do miss them. I’ve got three cats atm but they are all 17 so don’t want to get another dog yet, not fair on them .
When is your daughter due? Would you be able to see them x

I not sure what Miguel is i think it a bit of a mix but he is adorable best dog ever he a bit dumb but he is loving. My cat had decided to live in the shed since we had Miguel we keep bringing her in but she wont have a bar of him. He is a bit big for her to bully. She is due on the 13th of may so i got my fingers and toes crossed this year has been terrible for me when i need family most i cant be with them i know its the same for everyone else. If i had chip i could cope. I cant see my grandson and now i might not be able to see my new grandson arrive. worst year ever