My son died by suicide at end of Feb this year. Was devastating. I havent functioned at all, no shower, cant eat just staying in bed. How do I start to do the basics? Im so afraid and annoyed at myself. Everyone else seems to cope but I cant. Help me please
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Hello, my deepest condolences for the loss of your precious son, our children are the most precious gift from God, im so sorry for your loss, I have no words of comfort, grieving for our loved ones is the most painful thing we will ever go through. We are here to hear what ever you want to say, we feel your pain, may God bless you
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Thanks Lightmary. I have read other posts extensively and really need someone to help me out of this inertia. It doesnt seem normal ….ive had so many traumas andthis has broken me. He was 32 and not living on the same country. I need to get out of this state and dont kmow where to start. I want the pain to stop.
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Hello I’ve just found this site.
My son also died by suicide beginning of March a week after his 19th birthday.
I have other children and a supportive family and friends which are helping.
Happy to chat x
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Deebuzzybee I am so sorry for your terrible loss. It is like no other. I thank you for replying to me. Just wish I could get a spark to do something and cant. Im really struggling. X
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I think as I have my children I have had to carry on but I’m only running on half the energy i usually have as my brain is so full of guilt and sadness and I miss him so so much.
I’m struggling to see friends as I’m feeling a little overwhelmed but I’m trying to look after myself, maybe just try and give yourself some care. A nice bath? I have been binge watching rubbish tv for distraction but I’m not sure if that’s good?!
I have referred myself and my older son to suicide&co for therapy maybe have a look at there website ?
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