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Losing a partner
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Mine is now a year, I thought a few weeks ago things were improving but today I can’t stop crying. All I do is to keep going over everything, how we met and all our life together. I still can’t believe I will never see him again. He died on a Sunday so it’s always been a bad day, it’s very wet here and I haven’t seen anybody all day. I just feel so down that I’m never going to get over this. I realise we are all in the same boat
Lots of love Nala xxx

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3014

I am also holding all your hands the swamp keeps on pulling me back in today. Xxx

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3015

Hold on tight Nala we are all holding each other up today I think :thinking: x xx

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3016

Thank you so much for your support
Much needed just now xxxx

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3017

Thank you so much
In massive need of support.

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3018

Thank goodness for all you guys
Appreciate your love and support.xxxx

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3019

Come on Linda. You are still here, and that’s not weak, that’s strong. We all want you to stay. If I could, I would come and pull you out. Last night a man came into my side room. He was a doctor but I didn’t know that. He said ‘when I do this procedure grown men sometimes scream’. It was a blood test into an artery on the inside wrist. He asked if he could experiment by injecting lignocaine first. I said go for it sunshine.
Now, behave yourself or I will send HIM round. I know where to find you. Xx

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3020

It’s very supportive to know you’re not the only one feeling this way. I don’t think people understand unless it’s happened to them. Thank you all for your support
Love Nala xxx

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3021

Thank you Maria I need that hug more than
ever this weekend xxxx

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3022

Well that’s novel,I have just had a very sexy PM from a “lady” in South Africa wanting to meet,
On a bereavement site I am willing to bet it’s some hairy arsed male scammer sat on his computer phishing,I did respond sadly it’s unprintable here.:joy:

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3023

You sure it wasn’t that picture of Chris Hemsworth that drew them in. False advertising.

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3024

It could have been either way she/he is gonna be disappointed.

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3025

Aww, Ron. It was me, and yes, I am really disappointed. I am black and blue all over, but not at all hairy, so please stop saying that. It is libel. Xx

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3026

My word you are raunchy,and here I was thinking you were all demure,but I guess if you wear diamanté thongs it’s to be expected.Xxx

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3027

If it was that raunchy it must have been when I was under the influence of the drugs they gave me in this very hospital. Xx

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3028

In that case can you send me some please.Xxx

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3029

Sending a very big hug xx

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3030

You do make me laugh :laughing: :rofl: xx

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3031

People can’t possibly understand what its like to lose a partner, unless they’ve been in you’re exact situation and to be honest we cannot expect them to.
Grief makes us super sensitive to what people say , making an off-the-cuff remark feel like a slight and not the way it was intended.
Its good to talk with the right people, as not everyone can or want to handle someone elses feelings.
Sooner or later you learn not to expect too much from other people and learn to stand on your own two feet again. The anger dissipates and you suddenly remember that you can be your own person again.

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Very true. I haven’t seen you post before so if you are happy to share your first name it would be great. But no obligation.

Kind regards,
Siobhan

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