Anyone need a hand from the swamp I am here.
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We’ll work together Sandra.
I feel ok today.
As long as I can stay awake 
X x
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Sorry to hear it but I , along with Sandra and Liz and Jane2 are here for you.
I took kit a candle at church - said a prayer for all of you. I am religious but don’t worry I don’t usually talk about it. I know England isn’t very religious so usually keep quiet which is fine with me.
Doing ok today but Pat (Harriet4Bill) we never know what triggers our extra feelings of loss. It doesn’t really matter as some of us are ok today so can help you and others out of the swamp. Or at least try not to let you go any deeper.
I took miss his hugs and kisses.
Xx oo
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Jane is back on a new thread if anyone wants to say hello.
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Phew that was scary, have been out with the dogs is a wee bit wet and windy. This should give you a laugh, I put waterproof trousers, wellies, long raincoat and wool hat on over my pjs and hoped I wouldn’t get blown over and need help. Fortunately I got back without incident.
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Thank you so much that does help,bloody swamp.
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Actually sunny here now and wind has dropped.
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Hello
Omg do I need a hand or many hands as they are supposed to make light work.
I am desperately down this weekend it’s six months for me.
I can’t believe it six months how have I got here?
With out my wonderful Sam.
It somehow feels like yesterday but then feels
Like it is a million miles away.
I look at our house the garden and just can’t
Get over the fact he will never see it again
I looked in his bathroom cabinet yesterday
and saw all his men’s stuff.
How can I cry over a toothbrush ,a razor his fancy after shave cologne?
I just shut the door.
I have gone from being a cook to being a heater
Up of microwave food. and crisps
I have no interest really in anything just plodding on, I would like to know when I will get there???
What ever there is??
This weekend and all weekends are tough
and I know from what I read from our dear friends on here it is the same for us all.
Yesterday and today though I have been a wreck
Worse than ever as I just can’t get rid of this
Feeling of gloom sadness and knowledge that
This is now my life.
Sorry guys to burden you and I am so sorry
for all of us
love Doreen x
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Just keep plodding down the road then you will get one better day. Then you will get two in a row. It is a slow process. I was very much the same at 6 months.
Stay strong and grab my hand.
Xx
Sandra
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No need to apologise we have all been there,six months is a poignant anniversary,
It’s mine next week so I have no idea what I will be like.
Stay strongxx
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Thank you hand grabbed xxxx
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Thanks Ron I will tryxxxx
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My hands are here too Doreen .
6 months is significant. You will get through it.
We will help
Ron you said Jane is on a new thread. Do you know which one?
X x
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Yes it’s hello Ime back but not standing.xx
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Doreen
I am like you (and Ron next week) as Wednesday was my Drew’s 6 months and I can’t believe it. I feel like it’s yesterday but also a lifetime. I can’t believe it.
I find I have gone off certain foods. I am trying to avoid the microwave as I did that too much awhile back. But trying to do simple meals. I also have all his toiletries and everything else still.
It’s hard but keep sharing. 
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Ron what’s up…how come you aren’t standing.
Can you try to have jane join this thread again. It would be great to hear from her
Xx
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Sending you the biggest hug
Maria xx
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Thanks Ron, I just found it.
X x
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Here for you Lyn
Take my hand 
X x
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6 months was very difficult for me
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