There are two local rookeries here; same thing. Fascinating to watch.
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Thank you I know there’s strength in numbers
Just hope every one is strong enough
Doreen xx
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It’s sadly unavoidable dips Doreen,I was in the pits a few days ago stick in there it hopefully will pass.xx
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You’re not alone; everyone is here for you and cares about you. Grief is overwhelming, it’s natural to feel like that. xx
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Thank you
Coffee and brandy with friends sounds amazing .
Doreen x
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Yay we could all get beeping flashing knickers.
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God I hope so.
I will try hard.
Doreen x
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Plantman
Its true they do not understand what its like coping with losing our one and only had our future taken away money problems and expected to be over it all in 2 yrs ! I went for coffee with 2 married friends all they did was conplain about their husband’s, also they was buying expensive xmas presents and calling me tight because i wasnt spending , my money is so tight they dont understand
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Hi
Even to read your lovely post has me in tears.
Grief ? I never knew how it was until now.
To read that you are all there for me is just
So heart warming.
Every one thank you
Doreen xx
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It could well have been rooks! Xx
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It hits us when we least expect it, although I had a lovely time today having lunch with daughter and Grandaughter I still ended up in tears going round the supermarket as it was something Ray and I did together
Lots of love
Jane2
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Old country saying; if you see a single one, it’s a crow. If there’s a parliament of them, they are rooks. But it’s not entirely true, as you can get groups of crows.
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Thank you Jane 2
Love Doreen x
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Doreen we are all here for each other.
Linda - I didn’t even think of having brandy on its own 
so great idea
@Plantman / Hugh
Have you changed your moniker for this group as it said Tatiana or something like that. Sorry to hear about your married friends. Sadly, life goes on for people not grieving, they don’t get it. Glad you could share here and hope it’s helped lifted your spirits a little.
Xx
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Goodnight I hope everyone has a peaceful nights sleep. I have to go to the dentist tomorrow and it will be the first time on my own so am dreading it.
Jane2
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Doreen don’t worry we have all had those times and I expect will do again. That’s why it’s so nice to have friends you can tell who won’t be bored with it or embarrassed or expect you to snap out of it. Plenty of hands here to hold onto tonight (attracted by the brandy too I imagine) .
Just hand on, we’ll get you out I promise.
Lucy xx
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No Ron, you can’t do any flashing you could be arrested 
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Hard to be brave sometimes isn’t it. Hope you get on ok at the dentist. Think of us all there in the room with you. Might be a bit crowded though x
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Time for bed
Said Zebedee…
No lets not start that again 
Goodnight everyone
Sleep well
X x
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Goodnight everyone sleep tight pleasant dreams better day tomorrow.xxx
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