Mornings Jane and Harriet.
Just after my wife passed,close friend told me the next few months will be bloody awful,don’t apologise for your emotions,cry shout,scream whatever, things will improve but very very slowly,don’t be forced into doing anything,
Do or say whatever is best for you.
Ronxx
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You are no bother!! This forum is exactly for people like you…to know you aren’t alone. 
I slept so badly. I was up til after 130am because I couldn’t sleep. Kept thinking about the last days of my his. Miss him. Really tired but meeting a friend this afternoon. Need to get out because I have been in for the past 3 days.
Xx
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Yes this incessant pain and keep going over and over everything just brings us further down.
I don’t know what the answer is.
If I find it I’ll let you know
You’re doing right getting out.
I feel so sorry for those that can’t 
I had a bad day yesterday and I think if I wasnt having a busy one today it might be as bad.
The tears are still there.
Sending love and hugs
Liz x x
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Morning all , today is the dreaded day I am there at 3.15, something I am dreading didn’t sleep well , full of tears.
But I have put on my Bridget Jones big pants ( no comment Ron) and holding Gra in my heart I will and can do this.
I will try real hard not to have the imagine of Ron no pyjamas in my head lol.
Jane evict those mice if they dont start paying board they are looking for lemon drizzle cake. Xxx
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Morning Jo
I am thinking of you and would be there with
You if that was possible.
We are all here though in our own special ways
and I know your dear husband will certainly
Be right by your side.
Lots of love Doreen xx
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Hi Jo
Thinking of you today.
And like you trying not to think of Ron with no pyjamas 
Seriously my thoughts and prayers are with you
Lots of love and a big hug
Liz x x
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Good morning friends, I am sorry I missed the pj party last night I had our lovely daughter here for the night. I think I may be alright today, well at least better than yesterday I was up early have been out for some shopping and now my lazy dogs have decided to wake up we will go for a walk.
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Glad to hear you feel better today.
I am too
Still tearful but I’ve got a busy day so that will help
Love and hugs
Liz x x
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Morning Ron
Glad you are feeling a bit better today.
This is not nice as we never know what each day will bring.
I am still very low and just can’t t seem to get going these past few days.
Feel very flat then see a coat or trainers
and just go off into gulping floods of tears which I can’t control
I can’t bring myself to move or get rid of any thing belonging to my Sam.
Comfort and love Doreen x
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I’ve had a sleep. My stomach ache is just about gone. Feeling much more positive. Ready to help. Wish I could get that vision if Ron out my head though.
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Good luck today Jo,we are all rooting for you,
Let us know how you got on when you get back.
Ronxx
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I’m glad you are feeling a bit better Sandra
You always help.
Yes that is going to take some forgetting
I hope the rest of your day goes well
Love and hugs
Liz x x
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Good luck Jo. Thinking if you.
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Noooo, Jo!
Don’t put on your big pants. Wear a diamante thong. You never know, the doctor might look like Patrick Swayze. Imagine getting the chance to dazzle in your lacy lingerie, and ruining it with big pants!
Good luck.
Xx
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Thinking of you.
Good luck xx
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I think it’s time that @Ron11 puts his money where his mouth is.
We need proof (as well as a laugh) 
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Oh Jane are we really getting that desperate?
X x
Thinking of you. Take care xx
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Well, I am.
Desperate for a laugh, I mean!
Xx
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I couldn’t handle that many swooning ladies all at once ogling my tanned muscular torso,it would make me blush.
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