Blake
I think it will be a long road and will definitely have ups and downs.
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Deb5
I agree. Most people just donāt understand. Maybe they havenāt experienced a loss. Thatās why itās important to ignore them and try to remember they mean well. But continue to share here where itās understood and if not, people are empathetic.
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I totally resonate with this! Itās awful not having your favourite person by you sideā¦ someone who is there through thick and thin, your personal cheerleader 
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olive3
Again try to ignore the comments as they think they are helping but in fact are doing the opposite. When someone suffers a loss the first year is going to be so difficult because itās all the milestones you have to endureā¦ birthdays, holidays without them. I have already gone thru one (his birthday) & tomorrow, a second. He was a father two fabulous kids (now adults) and as itās only been 2 months since he died itās really tough.
But one day at a time or an hour if thatās all you can handle
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