CREATING A SHRINE FOR MY MAM

Hi Nic
Has been a very long weekend for me . Really dragged but remembering Dad today and trying to keep as positive as I can. Really need to get out next weekend though so looking forward to my two shows coming up.
Nice to see you post .Will catch up soon
Love and best wishes
Neil x

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Nice to hear you have got to more or less the end of the day in one piece. I can understand itā€™s so different this time. Keeping up with the cinema and shows must be helping build you up a bit, Iā€™m glad you have more shows booked. x

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Hi Tina
Had a pretty bad morning although felt a bit better this afternoon. Bit disappointed in one or two of Mum and Dadā€™s friends who didnt acknowledge Dadā€™s birthday . Not even a text . Thatā€™s why I like to come on here and talk to you lovely people as we all understand each other .
Seemed a really long weekend probably because I wasnt doing anything .
Hope next week will be better.
Sending love and best wishes
Neil x

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Hope everyone is okay with this heat today, the thermometer in my garden reached 38c at one point. My son tells me itā€™s going to get even hotter next weekend, I hope he is wrong.

Yesterday I went to party in the park, my granddaughter was dancing during the afternoon, really proud grandma. The evening we went back to see Abba Revival playing they were really good, my ears were still ringing this morning and the heat I think got to me a bit as feeling a bit dizzy today.

It seems you have had a bit of a tough day Neil, itā€™s life people soon forget even though itā€™s very hurtful for you. I am glad you have something booked for next weekend.

Sounds like you had a good time with the girls at the beach Nic. Itā€™s easy to forget how easy it is to burn even with sun cream at the beach. I hope everyone is not suffering too much.

Sorry Suzanne, I got it wrong it was your mum that loves Chris Hemsworth , I with her and Nic, he is rather dishy.
Hope volunteering wasnā€™t to hot for you today.

Tina I hope Zoe and you survived the heat today, that goes to you Lucy, Beki, Suzanne and Christine all the pet owners.

I should really water the garden, but I canā€™t be bothered, havenā€™t done anything much today, I donā€™t do well in the heat. Dreading work tomorrow.

I hope your feeling a bit better Christine.

Letā€™s hope we all manage to sleep tonight.

Sending love
Debbie X

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Touch warm isnā€™t it?!

Hope everyone is coping okay. I am thinking about moving the computer and everything downstairs to work as it stays cooler down there. May just work up here for an hour or two, as chair and set up more comfy and hope the fab keeps me cool

Beki x

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Hello Christine and Neil.

Hope things are ok with you both so far as is possible.

Went to the shops earlier and found some bargains in the store, for a second or two thought Mum was at home and that Iā€™d show her what I had. Itā€™s always the unexpectedness that gets to you isnā€™t it.

Glad I went so early as I wouldnā€™t like to be walking home with it being so hot. Supermarket was so cool and pleasant.

Good job these theatres and cinemas are air conditioned Neil.

Christine hope the stomach pains have eased. Iā€™ll see if I can take some garden pictures after and post. Nothing to write home about though as the saying goes!

Thinking of you both.

xx

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Hi Tina
Iā€™m always like that every time I go shopping . I expect to hear Mums voice when I come home asking what I bought . I used to quite like shopping - hate doing it now!
Cinemas especially are probably the coolest places to be in this weather - hopefully will be the case on Wednesday. Iā€™m seeing the film The Black Phone which is a horror and has really good reviews .
Hope your Monday is as good as it can be
Love and best wishes
Neil x

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Hi everyone, hope you all have got through this very hot :fire:day, sounds like itā€™s a practice run for next weekend.
Sending love
Debbie X

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Good morning to all.

Put the washer on at 7.30am to find itā€™s raining - maybe itā€™s just a diversion to fool us before the sun breaks through!

Given Zoe her daily treat bribe which will keep it busy while I need 20minutes to do stuff. Going to cost me a fortune in chews next week when my my Brother is away for a week. Unless Iā€™m carted off by the men in white coats before the weeks out. Does nothing I ask of it.

Keep well in the heat everyone.

Love to all xx

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Evening all :slight_smile:

How are we all doing today apart from melting lol x

@NEILB72ā€¦look forward to your review of the film tomorrow and hope today hasnā€™t been too bad for you x
Think of you oftenā€¦usually when I see adverts for ballet or opera lol :two_hearts: x

@christine51ā€¦howā€™s this week going for you? I do hope youā€™re feeling better and can perhaps go for a swim in this heat x is it too hot for the garden? x Iā€™m getting the corner of my fence up next week so will have a wee secluded corner where I will be able to sit and get mums old garden ornaments out :green_heart: x

@nicnicā€¦really thinking of you for tomorrow with your first day back to work. We will all be with you in strength :heart: x

Love to you all and thinking of everyone in this heat lol xx

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Hi Suzanne
Bit more cloudy here today although very muggy. In a couple of days Iā€™ve applied for 16 jobs ! So I wont be going to my job search appt on Thursday as I think Iā€™ve applied for every single job going :rofl:. I have a UC phone appt though so not that bad.
Difficult day for me today as usual so rang Samaritans earlier for a bit of support. Bit disappointed that no family or close friends acknowledged Dads birthday on Sunday . Made me a bit upset .
Film should be good tomorrow. I used to see all the Marvel films but havent seen one for ages . The Black Phone is a horror starring Ethan Hawke and is supposed to be very disturbing .
Got some more Ballet lined up for the autumn and spoke to a couple of my dancer friends earlier.
Hope you are having a good Tuesday
Lots of love and best wishes
Neil x

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Just you enjoy your freedom next week to do what ever you want and no one to nag at you.

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Hi everyone,
Hope we all survived the heat today, still very muggy with odd spot of rain here. Good practice for what we have to look forward to next weekend.

You have been busy in the job hunting front Neil, just make sure you find something you really want to do and not be forced into any old job. Hope tomorrow is a better day for you and you are going to see a horror film. I hope it doesnā€™t give you nightmares.

Nic, thinking of you tomorrow, I know your nervous about going back to work, you will be okay.

Sending love to you all
Debbie X X

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Hi Neil :slight_smile:

I think 16 applications should get them off your back lol x will keep fingers crossed for you that you get something you would like to do x

I can only assume maybe that they didnā€™t contact you on your dads birthday incase they upset youā€¦people donā€™t think sometimes and maybe think basically ignoring you on a special day like that would upset you more :sweat: x
I know itā€™s not the same but everyone here was thinking of you both xx

Enjoy the movie today and let us know whatā€™s like x have you seen that Ethan Hawkā€™s daughter is in Stranger Thingsā€¦Iā€™m like how the heck are you that old???!!:joy::joy: x

Glad the Samaritans were able to help x

On the late shift today so better get my butt in gear lol x

Have a good day, enjoy the film and remember and get something tasty for your lunch :two_hearts:

Much love xx

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Hi everyone
Hope we are all well on another hot day. Might be going on for another week yet :worried:
Saw The Black Phone at the cinema and really enjoyed it. Ethan Hawke playing against type as ā€™ The Grabber ā€™ . Not a lot of jump out of your skin moments but a really good storyline and the young children actors were fantastic . Same director as Doctor Strange going back to his horror roots. Ticket prices have gone up since I was last at Vue. Lovely and cool inside .
Hope everyone has had a good Wednesday
Love and best wishes to you all
Neil x

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Two tower fans arrived today much needed. Granddad arrives tomorrow and one will be going back with hi.

@NEILB72 great number of applications and hope something that takes your fancy comes up soon.

Been getting more and more done at the garden but think it will be quiet for the next few days with this heat and even more to come.

@christine51 how is your garden doing in this heat?

Beki x

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Hi everyone,
Went out in the garden about eight for a coffee, thought this feels cooler, ended up cutting the lawn, pruning, weeding, watering and fed the birds. Iā€™m shattered now, didnā€™t fancy doing it at the weekend with the temperature they are expecting.

Christine, I hope you are okay and coping in this weather, the heat is certainly making the garden look a bit wilted even with watering, the lawn is really brown. Hope you are feeling a bit better, have you been for your scan yet?

Iā€™m glad you enjoyed the film Neil, I really donā€™t like horror it would give me nightmares.

Good thinking on your part Beki to think of grandad in the heat this weekend, Iā€™ve had my tower fan on at night, only problem the noise is keeping me awake. You will have to show us what you have been up to in the garden.

Nic you did it, got through the first day of work, it will get easier from this point on.

Have you had any more early shopping trips to Asda for bargins Tina. Is your brother going away for work next week, I hope you enjoy a lovely peaceful week, both you and Zoe.

Air conditioning fixed at work yet Suzanne, we all envy you Lucy with your air conditioning at work.

I went to the co-op earlier, there was one of those little robots inside waiting for itā€™s shopping. Havenā€™t seen any on the street yet .
Going to go outside now to see if I can see this super moon :last_quarter_moon_with_face:
Speak to all again tomorrow, sending love
Debbie X X

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Hi Neil,
Glad the film was decent and itā€™s been a while since Iā€™ve seen Ethan Hawk in anything x Iā€™ll be honest the picture fails me full of horror lol x

Havenā€™t been to the pictures where I have actually paid in donā€™t know how long so I donā€™t know how much it is but I can only imagine how expensive it is now especially where you live x

Hope you had a pleasant evening and that hear from some of your jobs soon x

Will check in and see how you are going tomorrow. Until then sleep well :two_hearts: x

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Nope still no air conditioning :triumph: lol x

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Hi all

Having a bit of a ā€œhideaway from mankind dayā€ today as feeling really down/alone/hopeless etc. Not just about losing Mum but my Husband as well. Not sleeping, just feel bereft in every sense of the word. However I just wanted to say Hello.

Not sure how Iā€™m going to manage Zoe on my own next week. Sheā€™s just flipped my brother in the air after she decided to go on an impromptu ā€œzoomiesā€ escapade whilst still on the lead so Iā€™ve no hope of keeping her in order.

Hope everyone manages the hot weather OK.

Love to all. x

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