Hi all I feel the same way the pain seems to get worse not better
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I do understand Jo
I really do.
I felt exactly the same.
Now Iâm at 20 weeks and I wonât pretend itâs easy
But I have come to realise I am coping .
I never thought Iâd say that, and I donât really like my life now, but we have to keep going.
Our husbands wouldnât want us torturing ourselves like we do.
Iâm always here for you x x
Hi Molly, this is the stage I am at. The pain is unbearable. I was unusually calm the day of the funeral and fast forward a few weeks and im a mess, I feel like my heart has been ripped out of me.
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I think it does get harder after the funeral. Thereâs so much to do before and the shock of it all keeps your mind numb for a while, This is the place to come and offload because we all know what youâre going through.
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I am hoping you are right today as been really hard . I cant see a point in being here anymore. Xxxx
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Iâm sorry you feeling so bad, but please believe me this is normal.
I know things are more difficult for you but youâve got Millee now.
She needs you.
That is youâre reason to carry on
Sending love, hugs and strength
Liz x x
Ty Liro., why csn i not see that this will end it all looks very dark to me. Millie is lovely but i am not giving her my best as i dont have the energy strength or motivation to do it. I am so grateful for you caring believe me. And i hope 1 day I will be able to say i am coping, but at present i resent every minute of every day. Love jo xxxx
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Dear Jo
Of course it looks never ending at the moment.
Its still very early days for you.
I get told itâs still early days for me and Iâm 20 weeks.
I do still struggle, I still canât accept that Roger is not coming back.
But Iâm coping and honestly so will you.
I wouldnât have believed it at 5 weeks either.
Just stop being hard on yourself
Liz x x
Sorry you are feeling so bad, Jo. I wish I had a magic wand or potion to make it all go away for everyone here.
I have been miserable today as well.
But we will get better, or at least learn to live with it. We have to. There are surely millions of others that loved as much as we did.
I hope tomorrow is a better day for all of us.
Xx
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Morning today i have my 3 year old grandaughter Daisy. She helps to keep me distracted bless her. I am trying not to cry as she gets upset. I am hoping today i can get through until she goes home. Ty both for caring it means alot. Love jo xxx
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Good morning Jo
That will be really good for you.
I bet Daisy will love Millee
You wonât cry, youâll be strong for her.
You can cry when sheâs gone home if you need to.
Enjoy your day
Love and hugs
Liz x x
I am really trying Liz , i am hoping to hold it together till she goes home. Its hard trying to be strong. Yes she loves Millie. She is just at that horrible puppy stage flity and nippy. Love jo xxxc
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