Hi Susie thank you for replying, I have thought about getting a dog, I find it hard to make a decision on anything though, getting used to making decisions on your own is a bug thing as well, the hospice are starting a monthly group from August so I may go to that, this site helps because we all understand unfortunately the pain and lonliness we are going through, sending hug to you x
Yes, making decisions on your own is hard and I donāt feel I will ever be able to just go for it. There is no rush for many things and it is just learning whatās best for you and not thinking about what you would have done.
The group thing is excellent, itās something I have been involved with in the past and if itās right for you great, use it. Take care and keep posting, let us know how you go on. S xxx
Hi Chelsea. I lost my wife suddenly on 27/3/2019 and i still feel the pain every day. I like you have no one to turn to and i am alone as well. I have a disabled daughter who is totally dependant on me, but due to my daughters disability people do not want to know us and you just become an outcast in society. I have another grown up daughter but she is so busy with her own life we do not see her much. Believe me when i say I FEEL YOUR PAIN so very much as we are in the same place. As for the hug i accept it whole heartedly as i would dearly like to have a hug. I hope thing get better for you soon best wishes. Steve.
Hi Steve, Iām sorry for your loss, it is such a lonely and empty place we have to try to survive in isnāt it, it must be very difficult for you coping with the grief and your daughter, my pain hasnāt got any easier like yourself my daughter carrying on with her life, it was my second marriage so itās no point in me trying to talk to her, Iām hoping to make some friends on here to talk with, sending a hug to you x
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Thank you for your kind words. You can chat to me any time. Steve
Hi Chelsea sending a hug back as we all needs hugs at some point. Weāre are you from? Gail