First post. Missing my husband

Losing a partner
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Dear Stradling

Yes I realise on this journey alone… My children on a different journey their grief is different they have lost their Dad. I try remember that when I they do not contact for a while. They also have lives to get on with. I know its my future and I owe it to my husband to make the best of it. But its tough especially early mornings.
Mary

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hi everyone
yesreday I went to the docs about my foot which has been playing up for 6 years
he said I did not need another Xray as it is the tendons on it
so I was late home so sitting in the car son rang, told him what doc said
and then found I could not get the radio to turn off, in the end he rang off
leaving me to it. He cannot cope if I am upset and as the doc said I needed a heart scan
I was a bit

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  • missw mine so much and now it is Xmas and nobody wants me. I cannot stop crying* I ahve tried to get out and do things but nobody understand really I just want to be with him
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Hello @debbi, it sounds like things are really tough right now. I’m sorry you’re feeling like nobody understands. I hope that by reaching out here, you are able to feel that you are not alone. There’s always someone out there to help you through this.

You can reach out to one of the following organisations who are always just a call or text away anytime you would like someone to talk to:

  • Samaritans are available 24/7 to talk about anything that you are worried about in confidence. You can call them on 116 123.
  • Shout are contactable by text, 24/7. You can text SHOUT to 85258 and talk to them about anything.
  • If things are becoming overwhelming, you can also find your local NHS urgent mental health helpline here.

Please be gentle with yourself and take care,
Seaneen

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I am dreading Xmas
without David it has really got to me I am so down but nobody notices this
I am just a burden to them

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Debbi, sending you love and hugs. I’m so sorry you’re so down at the moment. It’s so hard. I am thinking of you and hoping that you feel better soon. More hugs xx

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thanks so much. the darkness and rain does not help I miss him everyday

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Oh I know, doesn’t help at all xxxx I’m missing my hubby who I lost in the summer and feeling lonely often. But trying to be kind to myself until the feelings ebb a little. Sending you more hugs X

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thank you do muvh

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