I will msg them and see what they say 
a few of his mates msgd me saying who’s got micks phone cos it’s active on facebook and Instagram and I said his mother, they must’ve thought I had it, I’m assuming his phone has been discounted now as it was a contract phone so she must be connecting it to her internet and going online
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If micks phn was contract no 1 esle can renew the contract.
So it will stop some time soon hopefully.
& ang u r still grieving, try not 2 let that woman get inside yr head.
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My last message meant to say disconnected, stupid auto correct, I remember being really upset when she
Blocked me on his Facebook account but then I got over that by thinking it’s only Facebook and doesn’t matter, it’s not like he’s ever going to update it again with a pics etc, I still can’t grasp why she’s on his social media accounts anyway looking thru his private things, obviously just nebbing at who he was friends with etc and maybe seeing if he had any messages from people! Very odd woman she is!! 
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Ang in time u will get past this woman,
i know its very hard because she has been so rude.
But u cant change things
So its really not worth up setting yr self
Any more.
As i had 2 learn from my husbands family.
Now i think its there’s loss,
that we can’t sit together & remember Oliver as he wld have wanted.
But thats life.
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Hopefully one day I can laugh about it, hope your ok @PaulineM1 after the way the sisters went on with you, people are so awful at times!!
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Ang its the last thing you u need is nastiness,
when u hav lost the love of yr life, & r devastated.
Ang u will laugh again just as yr mick wld want for u.
It just takes time 2 adjust 2 yr lose. Xx
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@PaulineM1 i still can’t quite believe he’s gone, I had my second councillor session yesterday and he said I’m in the denial phase of greiving cos I said
Sometimes I pretend he’s just in his flat and I’ve dreamt the whole thing!! I know deep down he’s gone, but I still like to have that scenario in my head that I’ve dreamt it, someone said to me yesterday I seen a bit better than I have been and I said I’m different when I’m out and doing something, it’s when I’m alone I’m replaying that day over and over and crying and wanting him back! I know i will have to cope without him, it’s just so hard, 
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Ang thats all we want is our partners bk.
All we can do is take 1 day @ a time.
Untill the pain subsides.
It took me 2 years 2 accept the lose of my husband, & i still miss him everyday.
& he has been gone over 6 years.
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had a look and found this dont know if it will help
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@Ang5 gosh I think this is disgusting and disrespectful and must hurt you so much . I would also feel very angry too . It’s difficult to understand how a mother can be so cold and unfeeling xxx
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Been to cemetery today and last weeks tulips were still there! She must think
They’re from
Someone else over 3 month now
Since I lost mick and I still get terrible anxiety going to
His grave, knowing he’s underneath 
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Ang it is still early days, & u r in so much pain & grief, think thats a good thing your tulips r still there.
Your mick wouldent want u 2 be so upset, i know u cant help it.
But letting his mother upset you is not helping you.
So get through each day the best you can.
I went 2 hell & back after my husband died, & i still hurt & its over 6 years, but we have 2 accept they are gone. But we can still love them. X
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he isnt there, only his bones are. he is with you whereever you are, watching over you, every day
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She must think the tulips are
From someone who else, everyone says it’s just his body there and he’s not there, I know this is true, I just hope he’s with me, although I’ve never felt any presence or signs, only 2 dreams where he’s appeared and nothing else
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you may not even notice the signs. havent had any major signs but little ones i get, even knowing when he has been to the bathroom. my son has had more cause he sleeps in his room especially around the date he died, 16th of the month. i found a white feather on my computer one day, i still have it. i am going to see a medium on good friday, you never know
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