Have already been widowed and now my partner has taken his own life

Losing a partner
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I havent a clue Christine I try and befriend ppl who like us are suffer from lonilness, but i never get a response. Xxx

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Hi All,

The trouble is we are the few.

Everyone else I simply living there lives just like we used to, and instantly we are plunged into this grief and emptiness.
I have racked my brain of how to move forward and at the moment for me itā€™s a dead end.

Perhaps in the future I will find a answer, but for now I just grieve itā€™s possible all I can expect
In the first year.

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Hiya Steve you are right of course until this happened to us we also was busy living life, it doesnā€™t make it any easier to know this. Its so lonely. Xxx

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@Steve123 I totally understand I feel like I donā€™t even know who I am anymore, I lost my partner of 25 years on February 17th at home after trying to resuistate him & I lost my beautiful little brother on 13th may in between both my eldest brother was diagnosed with a rare T4 nasal cancer. Iā€™m also a full time carer to my mum with server brain damage.
I feel completely empty and lonely itā€™s like nothing Iā€™ve ever felt itā€™s just been one thing after another with no time to comprehend anything itā€™s truly unimaginable hard is grief.

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You are certainly doing it tuff bless you. I lost my husband 16th june, and our little dog exactly a week later. Its really hard. Sending hugs Jo xxx

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Poppy77,

You are having it really bad,
Lost my wife of 30+ years on 25 June I will never forget that date itā€™s engraved on my mind.
I was at home with her did the cpr ambulance arrived within 6 min they tried for 35 min then pronounced her dead at 56 total disaster for me and my kids well adults now.
What can I say unexpected Cardiac Arrest life is
Sh1t. But at least I had her for 39 amazing years.

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I kissed my husband goodnight as was qoeking early woke an hour approx after to a a bang and my son shouting my husbands name, we lowered him to the floor an he took his last breath, 7 years later and still haunts me he was 44, 7 years younger than me ans then now i walked in and found my partner dead by his own hands so another image to haunt me,someone up there really must hate me to take 2 men who i loved more than words could describe away from,so sorry for your loss, it never gets any easier

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