Hospital they are crap do not care about you
@Lou27
What you do girl is take a deep breath and you put your head up as far as it will go and you walk in to see that doctor. Your man’s at the side of you and you did everything right remember that. It’s also your absolute right to know the ins and outs. You got this. X
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Yes Mark said he was just a number to them x
I am sorry x
It breaks my heart that we have to go through.
I feel that more could have been done but nothing seems urgent or important enough for anyone in the hospital.
Because of them Peter’s health deteriorated. 
Yes same here x
Maria. Was in the corridor 3 times at least.maybe 4 times. Disgusting
Yes that is absolutely disgusting x
Thank you @Tenpin I know I shouldn’t, but sometimes they just creep back I to my head and then they are difficult to shift, but I will try xx
I have started to cry .ohh. i miss my maria xx
So have I its my life now x
I don’t think anything you could say would be stupid, you have to be able to say exactly what you need to. Do you have anyone going with you? Write all your questions and the answers down to make sure you get the answers you need, all questions are valid xx
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@Poppet1973
Of course Mark knows you’ve kept your promise. He’s been with you every step of the way. Looking over your shoulder standing close to you. The breeze you felt on your face was most likely him . You did him proud. Now the other promise you made to carry on hard as it is. You’re also crying for what could have been if they had listened. None of us can go back. But what we can do is walk always with our loved ones at the side of us. Marks with you. Always. Cry your tears and through them smile and blow Mark a kiss. He’ll let you know he’s around you. I promise. Xx
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I wrote all my questions down in an email x
I am still waiting forcan appointment at the hospital since xmas .i am in lots of pain i need it sorting out.
I wish I had someone like you by my side x
I will hold head my head high but I am so angry at him. When Peter’s tumours were getting worse, we told him to put him on chemo but he said to us it’s only a leg and it wasn’t severe enough. They waited too long and his leg got so bad that it was completely bandaged up and the pain was so bad. He was on so much morphine and even then he was still in so much pain x
Thank you, I hope so, last night I thought I felt him touch my hand and then I started crying xx
Similar to maria. Her kidneys were not low enough .does not make sence her kidneys were failing. And they said 3 .4 times we are going to do it the fistula in her arm .
Mark kept getting sent home being told to wait for an appointment for his operation. When he was in hospital he had his lungs drained and morphine, never got a chance to try chemo he was told it spread too fast and he was too weak, he was on morphine too xx
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I will be going alone as unfortunately Peter’s family didn’t understand the extent of his condition.
I will write everything down, I was there with him from the beginning , every appointment and my memory is pretty good so I do remember a lot of things that were said. xx
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@Lou27
Yes love it’s awful. This is a constant thing that’s happening and we are the ones caught up in the (can’t swear on here) beauocrsy. So many doctors are basically up their own arses. But I look at like this if you eat sleep need and shite then your the same as us. I’ve got an anger that keeps me going. I fight anyones corner that I believe to be right. And I know you are. Let that anger carry you on . It’ll give you the strength. Xx
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