Morning x
I am trying to stay busy.
It helps.
Cook yourself something nice xx
I have ideas .if i am in the mood to cook.
Gonna put some clothes on .then go and see joanne .my councillor. Xxxx
I am having mash potatoes and cauliflower.
Didn’t fancy meat today x
@Poppet1973
Hi there love. Just read your thoughts on a Chinese meal. Order one and freeze the other half for another day. How are you today? Nice weather are you going to have a walk? Do you good. C
@Diggerdave
I’m glad you’re feeling a little better. Also help a good chat with your counsellor. Let us know how it goes mate. X
@Lou27
Mashed potato and cauliflower. Sounds petty good! Some nice onion gravy as well. How you feeling today?x
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@Spooner
Are you at work? Is it any better today for you?x
You are brilliant trying to keep everyone positive n you encourage us as well. You should be a counsellor.I hope you are ok today.
I’ve walked sons dog this morning but hell I’m breathless, I don’t know whether to worry about it or not. I just think it’s something to do with the loss…Now cuppa n sat in garden, sunny but windy.
Tomorrow decided to take the plunge n just see what this Oddfellows Society is about. They have a drop in each month not far from me so you can get the feel of what it’s like…
My dear cousins coming Monday n they’re both bereaved so a lot in common n that’s what we need because they understand. We have decided that after Easter we will take advantage of my sons static in Wales for a girly 3 nights…
I have to try n keep my mind occupied but it is exhausting to be honest. We all know that…
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Hi there yes I’m in work a bit better today, I just feel so drained, not sleeping well and this physical job takes it out of you, everything ok with you x
Yes I fancy a Chinese but like you say pointless I will take one bite and won’t want anymore, me and Sammy used to like a McDonald’s I’ve only been in there once since she passed because that’s were we used to go and I got so upset being there on my own x
I’m pleased you’re feeling at least a bit better cause yesterday you seemed extremely down…
One good day can sometimes make up for a few really bad ones
I don’t know if it’s easier to be in work or not. I don’t have an option but I am going to volunteer for the Hospice…
Meeting people is a priority it keeps us sane.
I got upset in Tesco. Crazy how it sets us off. Going to avoid some places till I can control the emotion
Hi x
I didn’t sleep very well but so far I am ok as I am keeping busy.
Clean house clean mind.
Had some lunch and just resting at the moment.
I struggle more in the evenings to be honest. That’s where it hits me hard xx
And how are you today? Xx
Hope you’re feeling ok x
I’m not having a great day, the house is a mess, so much needs doing, the garden is overgrown just feeling completely overwhelmed with everything and needing Paul back so much.
Literally everything I’m doing is reminding me of him, was going to clean the bathroom but he always did that, as he was very thorough, literally crying my eyes out and it hurts so much.
This time last year we were having a lovely weekend in an air b and b and now he’s not here, how does that happen? Missing our trips away so much he should have had many more.
Sorry for the rant xx
Just back from councillor she says i am doing good xxx
Just back from councillor she is very happy with me.and says i am doing ok ccc
Yes I’m at work it’s better by like I said I’m feeling exhausted, it’s this grieving were all going through, it really takes it out of me mentally and physically x
Nice xxx at least u are eating x
Well done dad so proud of you 
x