I think its like you said. The weather is bringing out the couples and is making us realise, what we are missing more. I am afraid at the moment i am in the go to sleep and not wake up bracket. Sorry very down today a very bad night last night. Wish i could say something positive.
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Sorry to hear that i am just so sad at the moment
Just no idea what to do…with my self .so lost worse even after 6 months. It is not better people say it gets better does not .xx
You are not the only one who feels like that, I hate waking up every morning and can’t wait to get to sleep every night.
Ive lost all motivation and cannot be bothered with anything anymore. I just want to be with Mark
@Nightwish1
I know love. It’s awful. It’s just hit me iast couple of days. Nothing I can do just let it wash over me. I think that’s why I keep wanting to sleep. It’s a way of your body and mind cutting off from it all. But then you wake up and it starts again. We’ll just keep on coming on here and just being here for each other. Cc
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@Poppet1973
Yes I havntyhad any motivation past few days which as you know is unlike me. And the feeling of just wanting to be with your other half is overwhelming. It’s awful. Xx
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@Diggerdave
Hey love. Don’t get yourself too down. You have good memories of your Maria. Try and think of those. I know it’s hard. Xx
Thanks i am too bad just a bit down, and sad i will be ok …xxxx
Yes it is a bit out of sorts for you but we all have our down days.
Im here for you like you’re always here for everyone.
Cry if you need to.
Sending you love and hugs xx
I do not even wanna eat .just so low x
All ive done lately is comfort eating, ive gone from not eating to eat anything xx
I can not get hungry .i have some nice meals .Just can not eat then ,so my frezzer is full. Xx
Yes I don’t eat anything out of my freezer, my fridge is empty. I warm things up or use the kettle xx
Just having a jam buttie x
I enjoyed the jam buttie more so than big meal xx
I had some instant noodles xx
I might try and eat later .no idea what x
I have stopped taken those sertraline. I feel better .sleeping better xx
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You take because u are depressed. I said i am not depressed i am heartbroken. And i am coming of them i came off them slowly. Then he said go to bereavement councillor. Which i am already doing that .the dr. Was crap did not have a clue. Xx
Sorry for your recent loss. Life will get easier. It is two years since I lost my husband of 41 years. I do still cry sometimes but the good memories take over. I still talk to him and I feel he helps me through the bad days.
I find routine helps. I work and have a dog so have to be up and organised. My next hurdle is retirement. The plans we had made are gone and retiring alone is not as appealing.
But I’m a cup half full so I treat each day as a new day. One day at a time.
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4 and a half weeks since I lost my wife. Things are not getting any easier I hate my new life
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