Goodnight, sorry to hear you and Poppet have been so sad, I feel the same.
Have a good nights sleep, hope you feel better tomorrow xxx
Thanks mate good nite too you cxxx
Goodmorning all.lets hope we have a good day today. Xx
12 weeks today i lost my everything. I know i will not hear anything from family or friends. Sent out a sos yesterday but got no reply. Sorry i know a lot of us are in the same boat.
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I want today to be a good day for all of us.no sun yet here
Xxxx
Goodmorning .i lost my wife 6 months ago.i do hear from anyone. Apart from my family .i do not hear from my wife’s family. Xxx
@Nightwish1
Morning. Well I’ll reply, like lots of others on here to your SOS…
We are all in similar boat. I’m still sat in bed feeling a bit down n close to tears and desperately trying not to get upset because it’s not going to change a bloody thing n doesn’t make me feel any better. I don’t believe the have a good cry it’ll make you feel better saying, in my experience it doesn’t…so I try n fight it…just feel sad.
At my sons later for Easter get together so that’ll be lovely, I’ll force a smile n it might just turn into a real one…I’m a great actress so they won’t know the difference…
I hate feeling like this I want to be happy which is my go to in life…
I really hope your day improves…
An Easter get together would’ve been marvellous for us on here…
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@To All
Hi everyone. Yesterday was a bit of a low day but today alot brighter. So onwards. It’s true you can sit and cry forever which we are all going to do on and off for a long time to come but it doesn’t always help I’ve found. Plus I seem to feel worse after and then just laze about doing nothing. So I’ve made myself a little plan of things I need to do over next few days. It doesn’t matter what time but something to be doing. I’ll even tick them off. I don’t have any plans for Easter. We never did. Going for a drive in countryside tomorrow with one of his friends. Might even do a picnic! I hope you all have a better day today and the weekend goes as well as it can be. Remember we all turn into actors smiling and talking at the right time when you go home you can let it out. Love to you all. Xx
Thank you for your post. I am dealing with my mum passing and your words helped
Hiya just got back been out all morning .gotva new bin wow.
And bits and bobs knackered now ready for lunch xx
I.am a lot better today after yesterday. Still in a rut. How’s you .xxcc
@Jane31
Glad to be of help love. It’s so very hard for all of us losing the ones we loved. It’s a slow process and the only advice I can truly give is just take it one day at a time. Do what you want when you’re ready. And as time goes on try and push yourself a little bit more. But slowly. Speak out loud. Laugh scream cry. It’s all part of healing. Take care. X
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I nearly had a meltdown.i remember what my councillor said do.and it worked xxxx
@Diggerdave
Yes they can be very helpful Dave. I quite enjoy the group one I go to. I feel it’s a bit of a relief talking to different people as well. Because you know whatever you say every one understands. X
Mine is 1 to 1
Hello dad how are you, I’m a bit down today I’ve been cleaning up and found my 50th birthday card from Sammy it upset me 
I am so so , i am a bit down son .i was bad yesterday. Juxt do not kniw know what to do x
@Spooner
Yes something like that can be upsetting. But try and look at the other side of how happy you both was then. The good times and memories. Xx
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I have just started to feel a bit sad .getting myself a smartwatch. Keep an eye on myself .if i fall which i have done ut will give my sister in law ,a message xx
Yes i am going sad i can feel it xx