Hello @poppi. I see that it is your wedding anniversary today. It is a sad day but do try to do something nice to remind you that your loved one is still near to you. We all have these ‘reminder’ days and we do get through them. Just to let you know I will be thinking of you today.
Love and light. x
Thank you Jean, it’s a difficult day but I will get through it, I really appreciate your kind thoughts.
Hi Poppi
Thinking of you. Our anniversary was quite recent also.
Sheila
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Hi poppi, my anniversary is on friday, 49 years. Dreading the day. Just want to hide away with my thoughts. Thinking of you today x
I feel stuck. When will I stop wishing to turn the days back so I could do things differently, cuddle him more, ignore the fact that he was refusing to talk about what was happening to him and talk about it anyway so he could see how much he meant to me and our girls. No matter all the excellent advice on here which has helped me to get past some of the guilt ,I still feel terrible. I guess nothing will change the fact that I just wish we could have that time back so I could rewrite the last few days. My daughter was with me on our anniversary day but the day after she left I crashed back into the reality of his absence and just cried and cried. I can’t seem to pull myself out. I hope all of you who are having to get through anniversary days, birthdays, so many important days we used to share and celebrate together, can find some comfort in remembering the good times. I found a card my husband had written to me on our 20th anniversary (26 years ago!) , I had kept it as the words were so beautiful, he wrote some lovely poems, I have put it up to remind me that he loved me and I know he would hate to see me so upset, Just writing that down has made me feel better. I hope you all got through your hard days.
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