How’s your Day Going Today?

Yes it’s the boot. I used to have a VW Caddy van to carry all my band equipment. Jackie had a Ford Focus Estate. She stopped driving in 2024, so got rid of the Focus.

As the band had supposedly played our last gig in April 2024, I sold the Caddy and we bought a 3 year old Nissan.

Jackie’s car was always full of receipts, tissues, bags etc. She used to have it valeted every now and then, but within a week or so, the car was a mess. My van was immaculate in the cab and the back wasn’t bad, even with equipment in. It’s probably my RAF background.

When we got the Nissan, I kept the boot and my side (drivers) of the car clean and tidy. Now the whole car is relatively clean.

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Beautiful picture John im same i used to be a car valeter out of school first job so i just hated messy cars linda was same stuff stuck in all gaps and pockets but she always said well i live with a car valeter its fine and just look at me id just start laughing thats how it was i could never be cross with her ever she just look at me and give me her big grin that just made me giggle linda do that pack stuff esp coming to plymouth not forget a single thing me it was a nightmare id forget loads weepy days are a regular thing for us now john don’t apologise welcome @12mossgiel sorry your here on this horrid journey too my thoughts are with you i always put my name and then my heavenly Linda or angel Linda if they don’t like well its how itvis she will always be part of me forever hey @Flints that is a walk and half id be lucky to make it with my heart issue i miss my walking and mountain biking now still have my kayak but Ne linda last used it 2 years ago now
Take care all
Martin :heart_hands:

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Well goodnight everyone. Hopefully I’ll sleep better tonight. :zzz::zzz::zzz::pray:

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Goodnight John

I had a good day in town, it was nice to see people just enjoying the sunshine, but it made me sad seeing so many happy couples, why did Mark have to die?

I became really sad when I got home, but that’s to be expected, he’s not here, and never will be with me again.
Have a good sleep.

Goodnight xx

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And you Glenys. Glad you got home safely.

Sleep tight xx

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Goodnight everyone…Sleep well.x

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Goodnight xx

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Not much sleep for me again. :frowning:

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Me either john but i hope you get some at least its becoming harder to sleep i feel most nights its 4/5 am for me personally but take care be safe speak soon everyone take care hugs
Martin :cry::heart_hands:

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Still awake so got up to get a drink and couple of biscuits.

Now going to read for a while

Fell asleep in the wee small hours, listening to my book on Audible. Woke at 4am, my arm flailing about on what was Ian’s pillow on his side of the bed. I haven’t dreamed about him yet and I don’t know why, because he’s in my thoughts all day.
Fed the cat….back in bed with a cuppa, listening to a blackbird singing its wee heart out. Another day dawning.

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Awake at 6, absolutely shattered.

Anyway, oldest granddaughter and boyfriend coming later to help me paint a room or two.

First I have to go to shops and get some food

You made me wonder whether I should try two pillows on the bed. Jackie had been sleeping downstairs for quite a few years while I slept in our bedroom, so I’ve been using one pillow in the middle of the bed.

I’ll try one on what used to be her side of the bed tonight

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Morning John. It will be good to have some company. Did you choose the paint colours?

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Yes Jim, hopefully they’re the same that’s on there. White Vinly Matt emulsion for walls and ceiling. It’s an attic room, hence the ceiling is the same as the walls. The end walls are a blue, so gone for a Duck egg blue. Jackie is probably up there now shouting, no it’s not. You should get "*****’
Still it’s only to make the room look presentable for viewing when I sell our house.

At 9.38 this morning it’ll be 12 weeks since Jackie passed at home in my arms. :broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart:

I have to get out of the house before then to take my mind off her bedroom, which is now back to the our living room. :cry:

Going shopping.
I’ll think of our honeymoon in September 67.

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It will look great John. Jackie will be pleased.

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Good morning

I’m seeing my little Granddaughter today, she is eight. I don’t see her much, she is always busy,
Hope everyone has a pleasant day xx

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Good morning Glenys. Enjoy the time with your granddaughter.

@Flints
That’s the thing with 8 years old they’re always busy as they should be.
I have four granddaughters ages 20,16,11 and 8. It’s lovely to see them and I love watching them grow and see what their interests are…
We have to cherish each moment don’t we because in the blink of an eye they’re grown up…

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