You can’t see a way forward but somehow you keep putting one foot in front of the other I’m nearly 13 months on how I got here I’m not sure
All I can say is you have to keep going for your child and grandchild, my kids are what kept me upright (22,20 and 12). Sending love it’s hard but keep talking it helps x
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I feel exactly like that today @Sah28 - I can’t see a way forward but I must keep going for my kids.
Today I feel so overwhelmed by everything after having a few really difficult days with sadmin, talking to my boss and my kids struggling.
I just can’t get myself going to do the things I need to get done and am so frustrated that I can’t function as I used to - or anywhere near it.
It’s my son’s birthday this weekend - the first “celebration” since my husband died.
We will all be at home but I know we are all feeling his loss even more.
Don’t know how to make it an ok day - I suppose I just can’t. And that makes me even more sad.
Hoping that tomorrow will maybe be a bit better.
Sleep well to all my fellow grievers. X
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You’ve just got to do what gets you through the day, it’s hard but somehow we get through the day x
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So sorry.
There is so much to deal with when you really don’t want to bothered with anything.
Does your son have any idea what he would like to do on his birthday?
Thinking of you, big hug xx
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He wants to play some golf but I know he will find that hard as he used to play with his dad.
I think we are just all not sure how the day will be, so will maybe just see how it goes.
We all just really want him back and still can’t really comprehend that he really is gone.
Sending love and hugs to all for a settled weekend. X
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