Hi @Bettyefs, I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Your loss is so recent and raw and it’s not surprising that it is hard to get through the days - the advice we see often shared on this site is that in the early days you can only really take things day by day, or even hour by hour.
I saw that this was your first post, and I hope that it helps even a tiny bit to be able to share things here. There are many others here who have lost a spouse and will understand some of what you are going through - hopefully some of them will respond to you soon. Your post here is a reply to a conversation started by someone else. When you feel ready, you may also wish to start a new conversation yourself, as that can often encourage more replies directly to you.