You’ve hit the nail on the head regarding friends disappearing or just being crap in the face of someone’s adversity ie. bereavment. To me, it’s like the worst time of one’s life and wham bam, people become distant or just don’t get it. I completely relate and it just shows how flawed humans can be and I feel for you regarding your ‘best friend’. Humph.
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I have saw my dear friends once since dad passed 7 months ago. We have been mates for 16 years, go out together, go wkends away, go on holiday, concerts, festivals……I Don’t even get a txt from any of them 
and it hurts.
I have 1 friend who has always been here for me (whether I want her or not) I could never thank her enough.
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The same goes for me… I’ve had little or no support from most of my friends and my “best friend” got in touch by text the other day after over 3 months!!’ It’s so frustrating and disappointing! It’s like they only want to be friends when the sun shines! I’m glad I’m not the only one feeling this way! xx
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At least we all now realise who our real friends are. It’s a very closed group for me now xx
Hope you are all doing ok xx sending hugs
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