To be honest @Deb5, I know I will never be happy again. He made me so very happy, we never craved the bright lights, enjoyed being together. I ask myself, as I sit here sobbing, what is the point? I do try to be positive but I’m not winning.
xx
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Thank you Sandra, I hope you feel better tomorrow too and you enjoy your neighbour’s company this evening,
sending hugs x
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Yeh i know … i know exactly what youre talking about and how you feel … and i find weekends the worse. I think i need to move but not got the energy yet … i wish i could just go away every weekend cos i hate it around here at weekends. Its so quiet and boring ! Its quite a boring village really … i will move eventually xxx
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I never thought I would hate the school holidays. I live near a school and morning and evening during the week in school term the parking can either be amusing or an annoying. It gives a focus to my day and something we used to sit and either laugh or joke about. Occasionally my husband would go out either to tell them not to block the entrance to our road or shout at the kids for kicking the stones off the gardens.
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I know what you mean ! I think people are just so thoughtless when you are suddenly by yourself. I not impressed with people at all ! They just dont care how hard it is without your husband ! Im so done with human beings ! My husband was one of the good guys … and hes fliipping gone now 
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I don’t find them a problem. It just brings back the memories. And when it’s not happening it makes me miss him more. That may seem mad. Now my neighbour has just rung and she is not coming over tonight now, she is looking after her daughter’s dog which can’t be left alone and her daughter has just sent a text saying that she can’t pick him up as planned as her flight has been cancelled. She is not happy as this has all been chaotic and shambolic from the start with the dog foisted on her. I am not happy cos now I have no reason not to bawl my eyes out.
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So sorry you won’t have your neighbour’s company this evening. Try not to bawl your eyes out, as I have done this afternoon, my eyes are so sore.
Another lonely meal to look forward to - not.
I hope you sleep better tonight.
xx
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Sorry. Too late. Have to look forward to Monday. Hopefully I will get to a physio fit class. My first outing. Then a friend is going to me for a drive. Just to get some wool but I won’t be alone
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My neighbours. Just as one isn’t coming another one call me. She hadn’t heard from me this week asking her to get me something from the shop so she was ringing to make sure I had everything I needed for the weekend. I also let her use my garden waste bin as she had a lot and I had nothing. She was ringing to thank me for that. My garden waste bin is a community resource. I have a small garden and my neighbours all have big ones.
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You got good neighbours ! They look after you ! Much better than mine !! Its a funny area around here ! I wish id never moved here !!! X
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I can definitely recommend here. New neighbours moving in next week and already we think they will fit in. They put a note through everyone’s door apologising for the potential disruption.
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Is it in somerset ! Bit far for me though 
xx
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You remember. Yes Somerset. We moved from a village a mile away from here and our neighbours were equally good. On nice evenings we would be outside in our own gardens and end up all in one sharing food. Also had great neighbours when we lived in Fleet. Once again knew all of them. Maybe we just attract them.
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@BobY we lost our 11 and a half yr old labrador last May, then my hubby in Oct last year. After 4 months i wasnt coping at all, then my LH sent me a giant rescue dog. He has rescued me, and given me a reason for getting up each day and out for walks. Animals, and in particular dogs are amazing therapy, not a replacement for those weve lost but bring us comfort when we need it. Xx
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8 weeks in I was told you only 44 you are young enough to meet someone else like wtf. Insensitive people seem to be very common
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Sah28 that is so awful. To say something like that is disgusting
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That’s incredible at any time but after only 8 weeks. At this point all you do is hurt and cry.
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somebody suggested 2 days after the funeral that I could meet someone else. We were together 45 years. I just had to walk away.
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I am surprised you didn’t thump them. How incredibly stupid.
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I had two now ex friends the week after my gorgeous wife sue passed away one sent me links to a dating site. The other one sent me his sisters phone number.the answers were unprintable on here .one of the idiots turned up at the fundraising event last month.but then accused me of pocketing the funds raised. Then tried to thump me .it didn’t end well for him
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