My gorgeous beautiful late wife sue passed away on the 1st February last year and feeling lost and so tired and low all the time. Been told i have been told i have a fatty liver and enlarged spleen on top of everything else.even before being told about the liver problem i am so tired and worn out all the time xx
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Hello, three years for me too since my husband died. Just feel permanantly tired and no enthusiasm to organise anything. Try to be cheerful for my daughter and grandchildren but i just put on an act. Often make excuses not to socialise - just seems a waste of time. Feel worse now than a couple of years ago. People think you are fine and you have moved on but really finding life difficult.
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Its coming up to 2years since my gorgeous beautiful late wife sue passed away on the 1st February 2023.constantly tired and worn out. Sometimes I have to force myself to go out for a a bit as I promised sue that I would never give up fighting for life.realy miss sue and even more so now after being told that I have been told that I have to have more of my right leg amputated above the knee in the next 6-8weeks. I just feel so tired all the time but I know that i canāt give up
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Hi Martyn2 it will be 2 years May 1st 2023 loosing my husband, I too find each day very hard to get through but have to push myself and not give in my husband was a left leg below the knee amputee and if heād lived would have had to have is right leg amputated so I really feel for you I wish you well with your operation take care I
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I promised my beautiful gorgeous late wife sue that I would never give up fighting for life and not give up.miss sue more than ever
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Dear @Davina @Martyn2
2 and a half years for meā¦ August 24th 2022.
Itās worse now than ever. I miss my Phil so very much. Crying more and more.
Just feel like you, everything is such a struggle, and so totally exhausted all the time.
Still canāt sleep, donāt eat properly, and no purpose to anything.
In fact my only purpose in life is to keep my Phil āaliveā in every oneās thoughts.
I still work full timeā¦no idea how really??
My two little side kicks ( my dogs). Stay on my side, by my side, no idea where I would be now without them.
Love, hugs and strength to you all
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Cathphil thsnk you.I got the date for a pre assessment for my op .my two boys (dogs)Teddy and George are constantly with me all the time. I wouldnāt be without them now
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This is Treacle and Bobby at Christmas in our local pub xx
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Sorry @Jennison1946 ,I really meant to include you in my reply too xxxx
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Know problem Cathphil, reading other peopleās stories helps me especially as we are all this far into losing our loved ones take care
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I lost my husband 2 years ago and get totally what you are sayingā¦ I miss my husband so very much and the life we should have had. Life is one big shit. X
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Beautiful. Bet there cheeky little devilās
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Its nearly 2 years for me too since I lost my husband and soul mate. I thought it would get at least a little bit easier but it seems more harder now than at first. I dont sleep very well and have no appetite but force myself to eat. I know he wouldnt want me to be like this but I cant help it.
50 + years together so I should be thankful that we had that long when so many donāt. Just feeling sorry for myself tonight as I cant sleep.
Take care every one.
Ann
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Hi AnnieG1 itās so true it doesnāt get any easier, for me it will be 2 yearās on May 1st since I lost my husband and as time passes I look back and think I havenāt seen him in all that time we were together 51 years still I canāt believe heās gone 
like you I canāt sleep very well either, people donāt understand after all this time why we still are grieving but until it happens to them they wonāt losing a loved one is horrendous part of you goes with them the other is you trying to exist but we do we get up every morning that is the first step you take care 
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I though there was something wrong with me I fall asleep afternoon and I go to bed at 8 I lost my husband 8 month been married 57 years
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Hi Sylviag so sorry for your loss thereās nothing wrong with you itās the grieving your going through and 57 years is a very long time with someone, you take care
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I lost my husband 3 years ago after being married for52 years Iām tired all the time no energy got no interest in anything I donāt think I have still excepted he has gone I havnt got any parents and I donāt see anyone even though I have 3 sons and a daughter 20 grandchildren and 28 great grandchildren I also lost my my daughter in law and great Grandaughter a year ago I know this isnāt giving you much hope Iām sorry knowing Iām not on my own helps I do hope recover better than me
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Hi burnstump123 I understand were your coming from I still canāt accept my husbandās gone itās not wanting to let go and believing it was all a terrible dream I push myself all the time to do things try to keep myself busy itās the loneliness after spending such a long time with your loved one I have trouble sleeping and find it very hard to get up in a morning but I do and to me that is a step forward you take care your definitely not alone
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