it never gets any better

[Mumcon]

The same to you Take care x

[Bess1]

Hi
Paul passed away 30 weeks tomorrow
Is that still early days?
Because I’m just getting worse if that’s possible
Xx

[Jean8]

@Bess1. 30 weeks/5 months! You were married 44 years. You can’t just be expected to put it aside and carry on. So yes……in the grand scheme of things, I would say it was VERY early days. There is no time line for grief, we all know that. I feel I’m getting worse too. I’m so glad we all have each other on here to support and encourage. Big cuddle to you. Jean xx.

[Tony1]

Sorry if sounded a bit harsh but we have to accept what life throws at us at the beginning i could not get my head around what just happened. We all know how you feel so please take care keep the faith god bless you sending hugs

[Bess1]

Hi Jean
Thank you
Yes I to would definitely say early days ………
whose to say when I’ll ‘feel’ better
If ever
As you say 44 years married…… Paul was my right hand man and now I’ve got no right hand…….
I know what I feel and I feel ‘lost’
Take care
Xx
PS another lonely Saturday night
To be fair every night is the same
Big hugs
Xx

[Bess1]

I’ll never ever again feel the specialness that Paul made me feel
Xx

[Jean8]

I’m so sorry, Bess. I feel your pain. I’m having quite a difficult evening. I almost asked David to feed the cats this evening! I can’t bare it. Cuddle for you xx.

[Tony1]

Hi jean8 been there my myself i know it’s hard but just take every day at a time we all want through the same pain as you are feeling right now it takes time but time seems a long time just keep the faith bless you chin up sending hugs Time is oo

[Bess1]

Hi Jean and Tony

Sorry Jean you are having a bad time no one has any words of wisdom or unfortunately a magic wand
We would’ve used that magic wand wouldn’t we months ago
Hang on in there in with you all the way
Feel and hear your pain
Yes maybe ‘in time’
Who knows
Sending big hugs
Know it won’t help but hopefully knowing folk here care will help……
All I know for definite is I feel exactly the same as you
Lost bewildered alone and missing our special person so much it damn well hurts …… a lot
Xx