Hello @Mr-chipps,
I’m Seaneen, the Online Community Manager. I completely understand putting yourself first; it’s so important to take time away and look yourself if you’re finding the community isn’t helping at the moment. As you can see from the responses on this thread, your experiences have helped others, so thank you.
I just wanted to remind the community that personal attacks are against our Community Guidelines. This applies to posts on the community, as well as private messages. If you see a post or private message that breaks these guidelines, please do report it to us by clicking the flag button. We’ve got more information on how to report posts and private messages here: Tips on using the Online Community
Please do take care, @Mr-chipps, you are always welcome here.
Seaneen