I’m so sorry for your loss Karen. I too feel very teary today. Will you be spending Christmas with anyone tomorrow?
I couldn’t cope with Christmas telly or all of the jollity on the radio, but somehow can cope with the carols on Classic FM so am listening to that at the moment.
Just going to go out for a walk and to say hello to the swans on the pond. Haven’t been for a while due to work and the bad weather, but that always lifts my spirits.
Take care and be kind to yourself. Sending my love and hugs. Xx
I’m really struggling like you all on here,my husband passed away 12weeks ago,finding it hard to believe he’s not here first Christmas in over 50yrs without Steve
Never felt so sad,distraught,thankful to be able to express myself on here
I will be lighting a candle for him 7oclock tonight
Hugs to you all
I light a candle for my lovely husband Steve every night, it is 19 weeks since he died. I told my children about the candle lighting tonight and we have decided to light 3 tea light one for each of us so will be with you all at 7 x
I lost my beautiful, kind sweet sister over three weeks ago. Every day since has been almost unbearable. I discovered this site last night. I am on my way to a church to light a candle and will also do so at 7pm. I feel completely lost.
Hi I’ve been listening to carols all day, I’m hoping my son comes tomorrow if he can my Eldest lives in Australia, when I’m not at work it’s just me that’s when it seems to build up ,thank you Big hugs to you🫂🫂😘
I’ve been listening to carols all day too Karen. I lost my husband Bob just over 18 months ago but the pain is still so very intense. We were together for 41 years and married for 39. I’ll be lighting a candle for him at 7.00pm. His picture is on the table with a small Christmas tree with a beautiful silver star beside it. I hope the energy we all produce this evening and our candles will light the way for our loved ones to be with us. Love and hugs to everyone on here.
Hello all, Shells ashes, are in the corner, some Christmas lights around her, she loved Christmas, her candle is there ready to light, peace to all on here, I believe and hope our loved ones are watching down over us. Tonight I am trying to treat like any other night, but just can not.
Take care.
Love to you all ,
I will be lighting my candle for beloved husband Mike aged 53 , died suddenly in June
Devastated he is not here with me .
Missed , Remembered & Loved my gorgeous man xxx
I’m lighting candle shortly to say hello Duncan. I love and miss you.
It’s wonderful to know that there are so many people out there are doing the same as me to remember with love those we miss so much.
Many of us alone, tonight of all nights, lost Shell in April 2020, but her Dad passed on Christmas day last year. I wish you the courage to get through.
Take care.
Hello mam. This candle is for you. It’s 4 weeks now and I’m as lost and heartbroken as when you first left me. Love to everyone who is thinking of their loved ones. xxx
If you can visit me now is the time. Please mam. I’m waiting for you. xxx
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