loneliness and grief

Thinking of you,it’s hard . I miss my husband just being here. It’s only been 12 weeks for me, it’s so hard how life can change so much without that special person.

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Sorry for your loss your loss was a very short time ago like mine and I find that time go very slowly especially when trying to arrange things so please take care of yourself and wish you well

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I found week 7 hard and my sleeping patterns changed. I think the brain starts catching up. Then again i am on week 17 and it has been no picnic, it just the waves,they can get you anytime, i know it horrible. So please look after yourself.

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I found it hard today.
I joined a group in my area but came home very disappointed as it in a different location every 2 weeks & some locations are nearly an hour each way away from where I live,
which isn’t for me,
I don’t want to be spending my pension on fuel to drive that far from where I live every 2 weeks.
I had hoped the group would meet locally every other week & there would be a good chance of making friends with other people I would see regularly.
It’s so hard where I live.

I’m the same everything was miles away but then I backed out of it anyway couldn’t face it joined a let’s meet up and walk thing as well but you needed to drive to everywhere and the walks were too long for me anyway would so have loved meet more local people to chat with don’t loose hope Caroline :heart:

I Was a in a carers and they put it tuch with local events i found a bereavement group that meet in a bar for coffee and cake and plan outings ones in accashen

That’s what I was hoping to join in!

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I was not aware thay were around locally for some time

How is everyone today?
What are you going to do today to pass your day?

Morning Caroline. I am travelling home from my daughter’s then a quick lunch with a friend. How about you?

Morning Caroline
My granddaughter is here till this afternoon then a walk round Tesco as usual then home alone rest of the day watching tv hope your ok :heart:

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The exciting hoovering and dusting today. It takes me a lot longer nowadays, as i look at ornaments and memories come back of getting them together.

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Hi Caroline, today i am meeting my daughter for coffee, & going to the hairdressers. Then back home, housework, anything to keep me busy. Hope you have a nice day x

Nothing today.
Just by myself again

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We are here.

I’m really struggling.

Sending a huge hug x

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You can tell me anything or nothing at all @Caroline2303

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Jim68
I think these last 2 days it’s really got to me feeling that I am just not going to be able to cope being on my own after 50 years of being a wife.
I :heart: my old life!
I don’t want this one new life.
I was in my local hospital today & I called into the McMillan office & they’ve suggested that it would be a good idea for me to have 1 to 1 counselling.

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Caroline go for it xx

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