Hi Kate hope you don’t mind me coming on here now. Just to say please always post on here. I am a year ahead of you with loosing my Ron but you have helped me so much. I do try and help people with my comments but you have such a way with words. Jonathan and Sheila are good also so please keep posting because you help me so much. Keep smiling as my Ron would say . Love and hugs to you. Xxx Carol xxx
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I understand how you must have felt Jen. Just 3 months after my husband passed and from a different era, my son took me to see The Script live. I really didn’t want to go but he’d booked tickets for my birthday and I didn’t want to disappoint him. I ended up enjoying the gig very much albeit with a heavy heart. I felt guilty for singing along and dancing. At the time it felt too soon, but I did it. You did it too Jen. 
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Glad it did Crazy Kate, I still have a little smirk when I think how they would have reacted- and the chaplain! Jen, a fellow fan, how nice that we can bond over Roddy! Malcolm never really liked him initially , I
was the one who really liked him, but then he started listening to the words and having seen him live, changed his views. Not easy.for an Aspie! Think he disapproved of his lifestyle 
Probably the appeal for me!I put him on full blast some days and sing and cry along with him. Haven’t felt like dancing yet but may do one day. Have a good weekend all on here xxxx
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Ahh Carol, too much praise this morning but very sweet and much appreciated. I try to keep smiling and I succeed most of the time. My husband was a smiler 
. It was one of the nicest things somebody said about him after he’d died; how they would miss his smile. I miss his smile too, but if I close my eyes I can see it as clear as day. For a long time I couldn’t see David’s face but I can now in all its glory. 
xx
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Oh you will bjane, you will…
- one day. 
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I think so,I’m not usually too miserable but as you know , what we’ve experienced is truly blindsiding! xx
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That is hilarious and actually made me laugh, not just smile. (I think that’s three times in 10 weeks)
Thank you
hooray! You must be getting there! Snail’s pace I know but every laugh has to help xx