Loosing my wife

Hello Ron
Having a check in again this Sunday.
How are you?
Have you been doing anything this long week.
I get out every day with my lavender and you must miss that with your Maisie
A neighbour called unexpectedly and I was surprised but very pleased.
My brother called in he rings every day without
Fail and my best friend rings every night.
She knows that is my most vulnerable part of my
day.
She is coming for lunch tomorrow so I will be cooking and eating with company.
I am making my Sam’s favourite a trifle.
Thinking of you Doreen

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Hi Doreen,
Sadly not much,I was supposed to attend a regimental re-union dinner last night,
My beautiful wife would have accompanied me as usual,I didn’t attend but a couple of old comrades stopped by with a bottle to toast fallen comrades with at the designated time,I must admit I was in bits maybe had a couple too many,it would have been my wife’s birthday tomorrow my daughters arranged a small family gathering at the cemetery and a bite to eat afterwards,a pretty shitty weekend all in all,
Yes I miss my Maisie terribly,I hope you and Lavender are doing well,give her a hug for me,
Sending lots of love.
Ron.

How nice of the guys to drop round.
Nothing wrong with one too many.
Celebrate your lovely wife’s birthday as if she was here.I know she is there same way I know my Sam is here.
I have seen things.
I will give my little lavender a hug .
Regards Doreen

Hello Ron
Just a catch up.
I hope you are managing as best you can.
Did you manage to get through your lovely wife’s birthday after every one had gone.
I know I try my best when I have family and my friend here.
After they have gone it’s a very different story.
It’s 17 weeks yesterday since my Sam passed away.
I have to cover the clock face when I am in bed so I can’t see 10-30 approaching as all I can think of is his passing.
I don’t know really what is going change.
Some people I think don’t know what to say so the topic is not raised and I feel as if my Sam
Is kind of erased.
He would be very hurt not for him but for me.
I don’t know if any body else feels like this.
Have a restful Sunday and get something to eat.
Lots of comfort Doreen

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Hello Ron
Not seen any posts from you recently.
I hope that you are managing .
I don’t want to intrude but to let you know I am
thinking of you.
Lots of comfort Doreen xx

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Hi Doreen.
Yes thank you not doing too bad,like most still in this hell hole but plodding along,
I hope you’re doing ok and managing to get by.
Big hugs Ron.

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