It has been 5yrs now since my husband passed away and it still hurts especially at this time of the year paul loved this time the lights the xmas tree everything about it we never had any kids but he loved seeing his neices and nephews we have two nephews that lived 3 doors away so that made it very special for both of us as mum and dad could hide there preaents at our house paul loved that i miss him so much at this time of year for his big smile the kids are grown up now and there is one special nephew that took over when paul passed away i love seeing him and having him in my lif but i.do.feel.so.guilty putting everything on him i cannot help my guilt or the way i put myself down i do.that to.protect myself then no one else can hurt me i cannot take anymore hurt.
I lost my husband a week ago and I’ve no children just our four little dogs who he loved dearly. He died suddenly and he was very fit for his age 69…we had four cottage holidays booked this year..and was visiting Blackpool on two of the weeks to share our 70th birthdays and our 40th wedding anniversary with our niece and family. We had a week booked in Cornwall our favourite place and Derbyshire where we holidayed last fortnight. I’m lost and lonely and knots in my stomach
You are so new to this I and you have my sympathy I know it does not make you feel any better but that’s what we are all on here for my husband passed away 5yrs ago and it is still the same for me I feel so lost and lonely we to had no children we where married 44yrs when paul passed and I still miss him paul was my soulmate and I feel very Lost without him and I feel so vulnerable I know there will never be another man in my life and that is how it is meant to be I find it very hard to trust people
I lost my dear Husband, Graham 2 weeks ago. It was unexpected and I am still in total shock and struggling to accept it. He was and still is my world. I am completely lost without him. I have very supportive family but I just want to be with Graham. I can’t see a future without him. Everyone says just take 1 day at a time but every second is unbearable. I am so sorry for your loss, I know exactly how you feel.
Yes night times are the worst its when you.shut your blinds and the world out and then it hits you ther is nobosy to talk to nobody to make a drink for and nobody to go to bed with its horrible i miss him so much
So sorry for your loss, my stomach was also in knots and physically sick for the first month after my husband passed away . I think it was shock as he also passed away suddenly. It now been 3 months and I also miss him so much. I find the evening and weekends the worst .
I contacted cruise bereavement services I had an assessment over the phone. A few weeks ago they said they can support me . But there is a waiting list of 10 -12 weeks.
My gp also contacted me , I have been seeing him once a month . He really nice asks how I am doing . He gave me information about talking tables and said I should try it .
I feel really bad I loved my husband dearly and he loved me the same….but I’ve got these thoughts of meeting someone else as I don’t know how il cope on my own …just for friendship …
My husband passed on 25/11 only 6 weeks after being diagnosed with cancer, he was 58. We were hoping to go away for new year so I’ve decided to go on my own. I’ve no idea what it will be like but I’m willing to give it a go. We also had 3 other holidays booked for next year, my sister is coming on 1 & I intend to go on the others alone. I miss him terribly, he was my soulmate but he wouldn’t want me to just sit at home being sad. I’m very sad but I’m trying to carry on with my life, I’m only 50
Hope Bernini away at Nee Year works for you . And you find some people to talk to . We to had holiday s booked for next year . I have had to cancel them , as they were dog friendly cottages . As I don’t drive I would nt be able to get there . Going forward I am not sure what I will do for holidays.
I had four dog friendly cotrages booked for next year and it’s our 40th wedding anniversary and 70th birthdays…we dog showed together all across the country but I won’t go now on my own
15 year old Mini Schnauzer who was placed at Crufts and 2 Chinese Cresteds Powder Puffs and 1 Hairless Chinese Cresteds they are my world my husband adored them…..we had just come back from a week in Derbyshire with them