Hi lovely photo of you both. I hope everything goes as well as it can and how you planned. Thinking of you.x
Sending a very big hug x
The day went as well as it could. So sunny this morning then rain all through the funeral.
Gone now, never to be seen again. Only through photos, videosā¦ memories
It is hard after the funeral isnāt it.
Sending a big hug x
Hi Iām glad it went well. We are all here for you.X
Completely flat!! X
No words darlinā
Just big hugs of love and understanding.
Our losses are all unique but we do understand each other.
Be gentle and kind to yourself poppet
I dont feel like i grieved properly
I hate his brotherā¦ who saw Nick for 1 hour a week before he went into the home.
His cousin and Aunty who he saw 2 years ago.
Im so bitter and angry.
His brother was working the room like it was the Andy show.
I wasnt going to go the wake but Nicks friends persuaded me.
I had one glass of coke and left.
Heartbroken
and wishing Nick was with me x
My darlinā
Itās all so darn hard.
I was the same at the āwakeā/ gathering afterā¦what ever you want to call it
You will be totally exhausted
Just give yourself timeā¦ And as I said be gentle with yourself.
Itās such a flat feeling after it all and worse when thereās family problems.They canāt take your memories away just remember the good times and donāt let nasty people get to you they really are not worth it easier said than done I know I have been there.