Loss of our son aged 27

Losing a child
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Hi everyone I am from Southampton x

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We will never be the people we were before Deborah because being their mums were who we were, I am broken too but im trying for Euan and with a massive amount of support but life will never be completely happy again without our precious children
Anne xxx

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My heart is breaking for you knowing Matt was in pain and needed his mum, how awful for you to hear that, Iā€™m so sorry.
Scotts best friend is a soldier too, I text him often to see he is ok as I know Scott used to worry about him.
The pain we are all going through is devastating.
Anne xxx

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Bless you Anne thank you for your kind words, take care my friend, thinking of you at work tomorrow hope it goes well :heart: xxx

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Hi Maddie, would love to meet up too. We are north west of Inverness but when flights are back to normal I can fly to Birmingham or Bristol.
I am meeting Helen in June when she is staying near me with friends for a holiday.
We need to help each other through this.
With live,
Kate x

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Hii Kate , it would be lovely to see you .v.ictoria and I have got to try and work out a date and place ,to try and get as many together . Is there a date in June that you could make ? Take care Maddie xxx

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Hi Kate , looks like June is out , would you be able to make 5th July onwards ? Xx

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Haha, I am away to Edinburgh with Brooke to stay with Jemma in her new place.
We can try for later in the year and I can fly south to meet up.
Kate xx

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We will sort something , itā€™s going to be hard to get everyone together xxx

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Maybe August or September? Not too far away xxx

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Thinking about meeting up ā€¦ maybe July? If we could all say what dates we are free in July we could hopefully find a date that suits everyone? It would be lovely to get together. I could meet up from the 2nd to the 20th xxx

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Hi yes 3rd onwards for us xxx

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Hi Victoria and all. Unfortunately, with childcare commitments and very busy with cottage bookings, the summer is not a good time for me. I would need to be leaving a meet up till around September but I will look forward to hearing all about your weekend when it happens.
Kate xxx

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Hello Anne,

Iā€™m just reading your post, and my heart is breaking all over again, I am so sorry that you knew that, I cannot adequately express my thoughts to you. Like Scott Sam had a very best friend Jason, who always said I have a brother from another mother. Wherever you saw Sam you saw Jason and vice versa. Jason stayed here with Sam as he lay in a coma and would keep talking to him tears running down his face, in fact he was here more than at home throughout. He has not long had a little boy with his girlfriend and rang me to tell me he had named him Samuel after Sam. In Roman numerals on the inside of his arm he has

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Love Helen

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Lovely photo of the 2 boys Oh if we could only turn back the clock .maddie xxx

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Dear Helen, such a lovely photo of the boys and oh so precious. It is lovely that Sam had such a close friendship xxx

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I sat up quite late again last night and was looking through Gemmaā€™s Twitter feed. I was never on Twitter so did not read it while she was here with us. Gemma was passionate about animal rights and had found many kindred spirits on Twitter.
Although I was tearful at first, I carried on and was surprised. It is difficult to explain but it was just so ā€˜Gemmaā€™ that I felt very close to her. I also looked at her photos on Flicker which I have not been able to do before. Mainly photos of flowers and wildlife. She was very talented and I am so very proud of her. xxx

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Hello everyone just fell out with my daughter, I canā€™t believe it has happened , her husband blames me me for her depression , they donā€™t care about mine . But I have told her , letā€™s have a break from one another . I donā€™t want it to be this way , but I donā€™t know what else to do .xxx

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Oh Maddie thatā€™s awful for you. You shouldnā€™t be blamed for another personā€™s depression. The situation that we have all found ourselves in is stressful enough without having to deal with this. I hope things can be resolved in time. Sending hugs xx

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Iā€™m so sorry to hear that Maddie
You are already going through so much, you cannot be held responsible for your daughters depression.
I hope you have people you can talk to and who are supportive
Anne