Loss of our son aged 27

Oh sue so many memorys so many photos .but we want the real thing . Andrew very handsome …all i want

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Thankyou Zoe , for your kind words , after seeing Jackie with the Angel board , and Dawn came through after asking her with about -40!questions and she answered everyone . We know she is with us , when Jackie asked her where she was at this Tim’s he was stood behind us . I was on cloud nine , for days . But I know that I still want to have her back and give her the biggest cuddle and never let her go . Sue such beautiful photos of you darling boySending love Madidie xxx

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Oh maddie would like to do something like that but a bit scared xx

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My beautiful sam xxx

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Beautiful photos of Sam Zoe. We were lucky to have our beautiful sons in our lives. XXXX

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Beautiful son Zoe. He looks such a loving soul.
With love, Kate xxx

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He really was a kind soul who cared about everything . Never asked for anything .i hope hes in a better place :broken_heart::heart::broken_heart:

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He looks such a lovely, kind soul, Zoe. So sorry you are struggling and hope you find some peaceful days xxx

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Hi Sue, such lovely photos of Andrew. He looks so handsome and kind. I love to see everyone’s photos xx

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Hi Maddie I’m so sorry that Sarah is upsetting you. I wish she was more thoughtful. I’ll call you xxx

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Thank you Ann and for thinking of Ash too. He’ll be missing Andrew too as they had such a close bond.
I hope you’re having some sunshine days :yellow_heart::yellow_heart:xxxx

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Hi Sue wishing Andrew a happy birthday and a blessed day to you!:revolving_hearts:

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Hi Racy,
Thank you. How are you coping…are you having any brighter days?
Love Sue xxxx

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Hi Sue, Yes I am having brighter days I have my moments like yesterday, but it was short lived. I sometimes experience anxiety and I guess it’s because it feels like a different world without Theo and I feel like I have to learn how to live again without him. I am still not comfortable being around a whole bunch of people like I used to be, but I guess that will come in time.

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I’m glad you’re having some good days Racy.
I did decide to ask my doctor for some help about 4 weeks or so ago. He prescribed sertraline which I’ve been taking and I do wonder if that’s helping me. I’ve never been depressed in my life as I’d always been such an optimistic person but I’m not opposed to taking medication if it helps. There’s no easy way to deal with losing our children but they would want us to carry on as best we can and I hope to do that…in time.
Love to all…Sue xxxx

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Happy Heavenly Birthday to Andrew, thank you for sharing the lovely photos of your precious son he’s very handsome, life is so cruel :broken_heart: you have got through this very difficult day well done Sue, sending you much love :heart:
Michelle xxxx

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Hi sue
I also take sertraline .have done for a long time .also take anatriptalin for pain and sleep no shame atall .what ever helps on this rollercoaster journey . I feel your quite a strong person sue .its such early days . Big hugs zoe xx

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Dear Zoe,
Such lovely photos of your lovely Sam with his sister and your grandchildren, you can see the love he has for them and how much they all love him, he is always with you Zoe safely tucked inside your heart :heart: Matt would give you the biggest crushing hugs and I miss them so much so I know how you feel, I have one of his tee shirts rolled up and when I get into bed I hold it close and give it a hug its my way of showing Matt I’m thinking of him and giving him a hug goodnight, I’m sending you a hug 🫂 love and strength and hope tomorrow will be a better day for you, take care.
Michelle xxxx

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Dear Maddie,
Sorry you are feeling let down by Sarah not releasing the balloon, we are only 3 years on and I know you are further along this awful grief journey and I’m sure in time our family will be busy on some of these anniversaries that mean so much to us :broken_heart: as you are away on Dawn’s Birthday what about all of you lighting a candle for Dawn and raising a glass to toast her at the same time and send pictures or do a video call, you can also let a balloon off with Victoria, as Dawn is always with you, they are not at their resting places they are all around us :heart: :pray: take care.
Michelle xxxx

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