Hi, I lost my father in law a month ago, I had been helping him out for 13 years after his wife died, when his children didn’t even bother. Then he became bed bound after a fall, he wasn’t found for hours. After that the family pushed me out against his wishes, told him lies about me, and making my life and my families life a misery. They then stopped me from seeing him, I didn’t get to say goodbye and I feel very hurt and angry.
Hello @Poohbear,
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your father-in-law that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
You might also want to chat to @Tish2 who recently posted this thread about losing her father-in-law:
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Seaneen